Recently joined a public speaking/comms club to build my skills.
Women (~20-25yo's) are obviously few, but they too are surrounded by orbitors usually. I don't want to "shit where I eat," but I am interested in friendzoning them. For now I am focusing on getting good with the alphas there; providing value and all. But I was also thinking of building "connection" with these women; social proof, etc.
First off, is this a good idea at all?
Second, right now, I'm just being friendly with them, but I don't know if that would enough for these women. I mean, they are getting attention left and right here, and more from their other social connections and media. Should I "run" game on them as well? What would be the approach here, since the goals isn't to be in their pants.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Just don't go for them?
It's not hard to Friendzone a woman. Just don't pursue
TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
Thanks. I guess I should've been more clear. By friendzone I meant having them introduce other girls that might be a good fit for me, have my back against false threats, etc.
Keeping things cordial is fine, but I think some women having your back can be handy, especially in my country where 74% of rape accusations turn out to be false.
https://twitter.com/hemirdesai/status/1499966069368565763?lang=en
fskfsk 2y ago
For a woman, the most disrespectful thing they can do to a man is friendzoning him (if he's gullible enough to fall for it). He spends time and energy on her, wishes things would escalate, but she doesn't reciprocate. I.e., he does all the boyfriend things except for sex.
For a man, the most disrespectful thing they can do to a woman is one night stand pump-and-dump. The woman gives up something important (sex), but doesn't get anything in return from a guy (commitment).
For a man to say "I want to friendzone a woman." makes as much sense as a woman saying "I want to have a one night stand with 20 different men."
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
No, because you are not genuinely building connection. You're sounding weird and uncalibrated.
"friendzoning" isn't what you want...... how about being friendly and nice and normal to these women? You're not trying to fuck them, you can just be normal.
What you really don't want is to friendzone them, which means getting them attracted but not doing anything more, keeping them as friends when they want you.
Firstly: women don't really work like that..... they give up fast and move on, they don't stay as admirers for long.
Secondly: it can really backfire..... hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. And by "fury" we mean "fucking up your life using all the usual devious female tactics to do so".
TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
Thanks.
Yeah, i'm talking as usual fn. But I'd heard some rp pros mention it's good to have some women have your back, be interested in you, you know, just in case.
Actually, something related, when I was looking for social game stuff, I ended up at your social guide yesterday, https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/1035.
Props to your for writing this beast out; its very handy for overthinking newbs like me.
yeah, i hadn't thought of it that way. I've faced fasle reporting before twice or thrice, but it wasn't out of malaise; mostly attention seeking or saving face only.
I had just read about friendzoning somewhere on RP reddit, and it seemed plasuisble to me; also had lots of upvotes, so it caught my attention. I thought, heck, let's just ask here.
Your comment put things in perspective. I'll just keep doing what I am doing then.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Glad it helped, good luck out there
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Did they also offer a full RP course for the low low price of $279.99? Don't be so gullible. Read the sidebar, and stop watching every little RP click bait video on YouTube.
Women don't have your back unless you give them a reason to have your back. That means you have to give them something that they would rather fight for than to lose outright. Thing is, you're not giving them anything. What are they going to have your back for if there's nothing in it for them? Your good looks and manly presence isn't going to cut it alone.