American girls suck bro. "Youll get obsessed"... it sucks that girls run this on default mode.

Also Asian girls suck. They know theyre lower value because they dont have curves or sex appeal. Their only "strength" is their reputation of being a good housewife and a clean home or whatever. But thats long gone. Thats her grandmas times. Its 2023. As youve seen, she wouldnt even put out. She cant even do Level 1 with you.

Her only benefit is banking on her asian card of being 'submissive house wife' or whatever. She cant even do that right, because shes the newer generation. Shes worthless in this dating market. Asian girls have been out for a while now. And it shows in the market.

Tell me last time you walked down the street and seen an asian girl with a high value boyfriend. Its rare. Almost always its some asian beta (in the variety of beta bucks or gymcel or high fashion asian). Occasionally it will be a white guy but not an alpha one. Hes going to be the type who cant get white women, so he is fishing for asian women who fantasize for this white beta bux they can control since they know this.

Look at all the white losers who run off to Thailand or whatever. They are rarely Chad white dudes. Theyre the rejects, but bank on their white card and cash out on it in Thailand.

Because of this Asian girls in America are bitter. They know they have to settle with a mid-level white dude at best unless they hit the lottery. At the end of the day they will end up with an asian husband just like the rest of them.

Why are you paying so much on dates?

I can't speak to the Asian part but bro that's basic game theory. Don't be splurging, especially on girls you aren't fucking. Contrary to the value you think it displays, it does not assist with her wanting to fuck you, which is why I assume you even took her out at all

You didn't game her. You hung out with her, then you hung out with your friends.

you’re not getting any tn

Classic shit test. She's thinking about sex with you.

She ends up getting way too drunk

B/c you ended up partying, should have lead the interaction to seducing.

she grabbed my morning wood but still wouldn’t do anything w it

That was her telling you do something now. Instead you waited for her to do something about you. This is not how women work.

Are Asian chicks usually like this at first or what?

This isn't an asian thing. This is you not knowing what to do and bumbling around like an AFC.

1. Google Last Minute Resistance.

2. Google Escalation Ladder.

3. You lack intent, both clearly displayed sexual one, and intent as in "you knowing what your game plan is for the night and her".

4. It's your job as a man to lead, to escalate and to initiate sex, not hers.

5. Invite her for a drink near your place, have A drink, don't get piss drunk, don't turn this into a pubcrawl, don't go out clubbing.

6. If she refuses to go to your place or stalls at all times, you're being gamed. If she refuses to pay for eve one round, youre being gamed. If she insist on you spending money on her via drinks, fares, tickets in the course of the date, youre being gamed. You set a precedent, now you have to put an end to it.

7. No fucking friends. You could have taken her home but you took her to a club. Then you brought her AND your friends to your place and got more drunk. That was on you, not her or your friends. You either want to fuck her on not.

8. Don't be insistent or pushy, but be leading in a direction of sex, she know's whats up she either wants it and presents token resistance ("youre not getting any tn") or doesn't and presents a real one ("i wont go to your place at all, i wanna go clubbing again").

Amongst other shit says I’ll “get obsessed”

Doesn't matter what she says, it matters what she does.