so last night I was at the bar; end up picking up an absolute dime.
we go sit at a booth while we’re waiting for the uber. all of a sudden, two tall ass fools walk up. One guy (guy A) just plops his ass down next to my bird; the other one (guy B) leans in on the booth on my side and basically closes me in.
they’re both like 6ft 2 but not that jacked. I’m a 5”8 king and besides the chick, by myself.
Guy B says “hey have u guys seen Batman begins? Doesn’t guy a look like so and so from the movie?”
I say nah he looks like the joker. And quietly lean in on guy b and say “i know what you guys are trying to do; there’s a bunch of other birds here, quit wasting ur time n go rizz we’re literally waiting on uber.”
Guy B tries to make it loud and say nah nah we’re not doing anything just asking a question blah blah blah.
I ask him what kinda watch he’s wearing and he pulls out his citizen. He asks me what am I wearing and I whip out the rolex.
In the end, chick fucked them off too and said it was nice talking to you but were leaving. And we dip. I hear guy B yell out “fuck you” to me as we’re leaving.
I got the end result that I wanted; banged the chick but it fucking pisses me off when some random dude I don’t even know tries to swoop on my bitch in front of my face. like how dumb do u gotta be to try and Rizz a chick that’s obviously already one on one w another dude.
Ik it’s supposed to be on the girl to tell em to fuck off and by getting mad I look beta. I just feel like I get hella territorial the second I see another dude trying to talk to one of my chicks in front of me.
How could I have handled the situation better/how do I dominate the scenario? Should I have stopped them the moment they tried to sit down at our booth or what?
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
This is why you should sit next to the girl, with her on the inside. That way everybody knows she's your bitch. Makes kino easier as well. Go get her, tiger! RAWR!
financehardo420 1y ago
noted for next time; can’t wait till shawty comes back from her parents house. Guess the only dilemma is which shawty to see tn instead lol
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah you could've made a big deal about them sitting at your booth. It doesn't really matter what you do tbh. You got flexed on, you flexed back. Their tactic is to flex on you and then get the girl to lose attraction. When that didn't work they tried the old goading trick with the "fuck you".
I would've done something similar to what you did by giving them an indirect warning like "Oh, sorry guys, we're having a private conversation". If they don't take the hint I would be more direct like "OK, well if you insist on interrupting and being rude I can do that too, fuck-face". Then your chick would've done what she did. Maybe they would be like "You callin me a fuck face? You wanna make something of it?". And then it's show time, one solid punch right to his adam's apple.
You see, this type of aggression is not acceptable anywhere on the planet outside of clown world. As long as you keep your head about you and are prepared to send them to the hospital, I'm all for teaching them a lesson. I will never ever fuck with another man or try to AMOG through intimidation because I understand this.
financehardo420 1y ago
It’s like I don’t blame them for trying; she was hot as fuck but at same time it’s just like basic minimal respect - wait ur turn. Do these kinds of tactics even work lmfao just seems goofy as hell.
Need to learn to be calm enough to just say something like that - I feel like my reaction let ‘em know I was pressed ab it. Classic adams apple punch. Guy A looked soft as hell Guy B might have been able to throw down. However 2 6ft2 dudes vs 1 5”8 me… I didn’t really like those odds lol. Esp while my left shoulder is fucked lol one hard punch w my left arm and it’d pop out for sure.
I’ve sent someone to the hospital once in my life when I was in hs… never again lol I got arrested for it. And these days man everyone hits the gym… one wrong punch could result in a dude hitting his head on the corner of a table and fuck around and catch manslaughter or some shit like that. Not really down to ruin my life over some preowned pussy lmfao. Same man I want my fellow men to clap cheeks; if I see a dude talking up a hot bird I’ll just be thinking good shit and look for my own. If she fucks him off then I might shoot my shot but I’ll never go outta my way to block someone else’s cock lol.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah I learned that stuff in Russia and Asia. Like everyone is waiting in line to get into the subway and some a-hole jumps the line. People would be like "Oh, hey, there's a line here buddy" and make the line jumper look like an ass. You could think of it like a pressure-flip way to pass a shit test.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Back in my teen years when I was learning martial arts I had this modified crane kick similar to the karate kid movie. The way it works is it looks like you are coming in with a side kick from one leg, the opponent sees it coming and commits to a dodge. Then you leap off the ground and switch to a kick from the other leg and catch them right in the head where they're dodging to.
This works really well on bigger opponents that take longer to react. Their dodge will bring their head a little lower and their momentum will make the real kick unavoidable. Anymore though I prefer a straight front kick. When you put someone on the ground straight away it really sends a message. https://youtu.be/5pL6uUYdWbU?t=55
financehardo420 1y ago
Bc I’m semi crippled in my shoulders I damn near wanna learn kickboxing. I can rep damn close to 1000lb on leg press so id for sure knock the living fuck outta anyone w a square kick to jaw no kizzy; if not murk em lmao
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah it's usually not worth it, even when you're feeling good. Kickboxing is fun.
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shaketheroom 1y ago
Yeah man, just dont mateguard. Only intervene when there is palpable disrespect and you have the leverage to call them out and put them in their place.
Otherwise if you jump the gun you will look: sensitive, jealous, mate guard, combative, controlling, etc.
For example you cant fight every guy you catch flirting with your girl or trying to AMOG you. You need undeniable evidence of disrespect before you can push back without looking like an overreactive beta, just that way it works. Other people are simpletons and its like a jury, you need the people on your side, if not, you will look beta for jumping the gun.
financehardo420 1y ago
Define palpable disrespect haha bc in my book sliding up the way they did, dude sitting next to my bitch in front of me like = blatant disrespect.
It’s true man it happened before… spring break in Miami I was w my oneitis. Some Aussie kid comes up to us; asks me if it’s my girl I told him we’re just having fun on break go fuck off somewhere else. Then we squared up. Then my chick bitched at me all night for trying to fight him lmfao
SSeuSS 1y ago
Alternative?
I used something like below in circumstances
Ask a girl something like "are you with me for a ride?" If there are cameras to register interaction (or do it by default as cameras are everywhere now). Completly ignore 3rd party.
112 / 999
Hello, I would like to report sexual harrasment.
Watch the brown liquid emrging from their orifice.
financehardo420 1y ago
I laughed my ass off at this. Lesser men will go to the bouncer n tell them the dudes are sexually harassing chicks so they get kicked out.
Idk if that’s alpha behavior though
SSeuSS 1y ago
Yes. You don't go to bouncers.
You are doing it while sipping drink. Looking relaxed. Let them jog.
Basically while they walk you also call them back to.stay for a drink.
slowlylearning1 1y ago
I'm still nowhere near where I want to be but compared to six months ago - it's night and day, but noticed this a little more of late. Usually its beta types who you can basically shoe off with ease, but the more alpha ones are a tad trickier. I had one say to me ''I know what you are trying to do with this slow and silent thing,'' - I was sitting alone at a bar, he was really drunk ; I told him that he didn't know anything about me or what I've been through and if he wants to talk like a man, then that is not the way to do it.
Guard was instantly down and he started talking about his issues! You can often turn these situations around so easily especially if you are out-numbered by goons - by asking them personal questions! Often these people have no personality or low IQ, so you can often outwit them. Of course, if he's showing no respect then you be a bit firmer - but don't go crazy and get your arse handed to you if he's bigger or has more losers with him.
You handled that like boss! Two guys inflated on alcohol (and probably Coke - if its the UK, then most likely).
financehardo420 1y ago
Yea most dudes under 6ft I can intimidate pretty easily just by standing up straight and maybe flexing up my muscles. Dude sounds like an absolute weirdo lmfaooo.
These guys had low IQ written all over their face; could tell instantly they had nothing going for em lmfao. Guess it’s just part of picking up chicks at the bar; always gonna be some shmuck trying to swoop on my kills lol.
USA lol but also still possible hahah. I figure I did ok enough cause chick still went home w me >=]
slowlylearning1 1y ago
Good to hear, and this site is gold. Reading other like minded posts.
financehardo420 1y ago
Makes us better men