Met a girl 1.5 weeks ago on tinder, had some minor back and forth and was able to get her number 4 days ago. Trying to ask her out soon. Here is the problem. Her response times are very inconsistent, sometimes she responds within 10 min, sometimes 5 hours, and most recently she responded after almost 2 days.
However when she did respond, she said she was sorry and was busy and she’s also not the best texter. Also I noticed when she responded to me ya she answers properly and asks questions back, but she makes a lot of spelling mistakes, meaning she don’t give a fuck what she’s typing.
I found the responding after 2 days very disrespectful, aint no body that busy. But also when she responded after 2 days she did answer the question I asked her, when she was free, she said she was free weekends for dates. I’m just confused about all these mixed signals. What you guys think?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 2y ago
eh kinda weird. you could try FaceTiming her or sumn. Or just hit her up w plans.
“what’s good you sexy mynx we’re grabbing sushi on Saturday I’ll pick u up @ 8”
dongking 2y ago
Met (matched) 1.5 weeks a go? You should've asked her out 1.5 days after the match, max.
Now her attention is on some new Chad(s) that had balls enough to meet up and bang her.
Tinder/OLD is a game where you really have to strike when the iron is hot. Match --> Vibe on snapchat for a lil --> Set up date. This should happen within 1-2 days after matching.
You're clearly way overinvested since you're even asking this question.
She is not shit testing you. She's low interest now. Probably since you took too long to set up a meet up and/or since you have too much scarcity mindset.
Get more prospects and close them quicker.
helpfulguy22 2y ago
No I agree with you, but you didn’t get what I mean, I tried to do that, but her reply time is too inconsistent, she pulled the 2 day reply on tinder once too, it’s super wierd, sometimes she replies right away sometimes 2 days later. Never met a girl like that.
dongking 2y ago
Fair enough.
If you ever notice a girl is not responding directly or taking (extra) long to respond to an invitation for a meet up, freeze her out. She's not interested.
No point in giving out free validation and attention to a chick that you'll never smash anyway.
On to the next one.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
It's not a shit test.
However, it's a strong indicator that she isn't that interested. I'd next her.
Lionsmane8 2y ago
Either she wants you to chase or she's not that interested. In both instances treat her the same, don't waste your time.
"Drop me a hint when you're available". Then move on. Let her chase