Spinning plates has been giving me mixed feelings recently. I was raised in a VERY trad con Christian household, and by extension, I only ever was monogamous. But now that I am higher-value and became Red-Pilled, I have been getting better results in the dating scene.
For ex. I had a date earlier this week with one chick, and later in the week had another date and night with a different one. This is the first time I've had two intimate relations fall into one week, and I don't think I'm used to it.
Reading about Plate Theory is one thing, but applying it is a different animal. Does anyone else have experience with getting over any barriers when first starting out? Any strategies/ rationalizations you have to be more successful at it?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Plate spinning is not for everyone. Red pill is amoral so you have to apply it according to your own morals. When I was looking for a wife I didn't date any women that didn't want to be a wife and mother and have traditional gender roles. It would be a complete waste of my time. I screened like 95% of Western women out.
Now, when I want hot sex with a random hoe I just go do it. That's basically what spinning plates is. The idea is that you will eventually end up with a plate you like and upgrade her but you don't have to... you can date intentionally.
FR33DOM_over_F33R 1y ago
Absolutely, I vet them as well, just "pretty" doesn't cut it. Like I said I'm trad con so that's what I expect, although I can be a little lenient in that regard.
How did your wife searching venture go? Any particular places you looked for approaches or did you just let them come to you?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I just started asking every woman I encountered. I can save you a lot of time and just tell you to go to Indonesia and get a Muslim woman from a poor family. The ones that want a foreigner are at the English schools. I could go get you an HB10 trad/con woman in like 10sec.
financehardo420 1y ago
kill or be killed bro
SSeuSS 1y ago
I think vast majority of people arrive to plate spinning because of natural abundance and no inhibitions or by getting burned and loosing inhibitions.
You have inhibitions therefore get in relatiinshio and Get burned. Earlier the better: let her move in, but God forbid you showing your wallet or getting her pregnant. After one/3 months tap into her phone permanently, wait for fireworks.
Getting burned hurts, but its less damaging then burning with and in the house.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
One thing to keep in mind is that you are doing it for yourself. You are maximising your own sexual strategy. And at the same time you will not be what women think they want. You will not be weak and easily captured to be made into a puppet like so many other blue pilled men.
This requires a certain harshness. Until you've fully swallowed the red pill and get to the point where you're fully at ease with yourself and your sexual being you can feel like you're living an ugly truth. Like you're doing something bad.
But it's not bad. It's simply you, breaking the mold. Becoming something more, and fast.