Hi guys, so I was drinking with a group of people who I didn’t know, I only knew one person(the guy who invited me out).
I don’t really remember much because I kinda blacked out from too much alcohol. But what I remember is I was fighting with this guy and then it goes to the floor then someone booted me in the head and I got up and then this guy hit me right in the jaw this knocking my tooth out then I got hit again but in the head as I realized my tooth got knocked out. So at that point I ran away and spat my tooth out.
I live in a small city ~100k people and I know who it was but I’m not sure how it started or what it was over but I still want to go and find this guy and knock his teeth out.
I went to the police straight after it happened and told them and they said they couldn’t do anything even tho there was cctv where it happened but it was dark so I can understand if they didn’t find any footage. I even gave them the name of the person who threw the punch that knocked my tooth out and they couldn’t get anything.
Look I know I shouldn’t have been drinking and getting black out drunk while with people I don’t know, I’ve learned from that.
What I am asking for is some advice on how you guys would handle the situation because it feels like I can’t even talk to women at this point?
Diabs about a week ago
First of all you need to address your alcohol problem because if you keep drinking things like this will not stop happening and take some accountability on your end because you were blackout drunk you don't even remember who started the fight, There's a high chance it was you considering the state you were in. I say all this from my own experience and troubles with drinking.
The worst thing you can do if you want revenge is talk to the police. You told them what happened so now your the number one suspect if this guy gets hurt. If your gonna do it plan it out well and good luck.
Blingo123 about a week ago
Yeah this happened a few months back but im only posting about it now and i have stopped going out to drink at least. Thanks for the advice man much appreciated.
I dont know what im gonna do about trying to get revenge its just effort to plan out and carry out when i could be doing other things
Lone_Ranger about a week ago
Revenge will wind you up in jail. Or dead. Maybe both.
Wake up brother.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a week ago
I’m not sure how to help with the revenge but I can say that there are options for people missing teeth. I recently went on a date with a girl who was missing a tooth in the past. Her teeth look nice now, I think she got veneers but they also have screw in teeth for individual teeth replacement. I don’t think these are removable so no one will ever know you were missing a tooth.
Blingo123 about a week ago
Thanks for the comment bro. im getting a screw into my jaw in a few months (just the screw not the crown).
IBelieveInTheFallen about a week ago
No problem, I’m glad you’re doing something about it.
Are you getting the crown later?
Blingo123 about a week ago
Yeah I'm glad too haha.
You have to wait at least 6 months ( if you don't buy the temporary ones) after you get the screw till they can fit the crown. I imagine it will be easier getting an impression for your teeth after they fit the screw.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a week ago
I see, definitely get on that when you can. I knew a kid who fell off his bike and lost a few teeth and was going to get them fixed then never did.
Blingo123 about a week ago
I will do. Thank you for the comment bro means a lot
IBelieveInTheFallen about a week ago
No problem man
Vermillion-Rx about a week ago
Keep in mind hunting down a game premeditated to fight him is both illegal and viewed more harshly then drunkenly fighting in the heat of the moment
Also, it's stupid and life-endangering. There is a very real possibility you could bring your fists to a fight that ends up having knives or a gun.
Shit sucks. I've never been in a legitimate fight, so I don't know what it's like to lose one. But as humiliating as it may have been, move on. You're inviting nothing but mayhem into your life by trying to exact revenge in this situation.
There is a very real chance that guy wrote off the fight as a drunken quarrell. Don't make this a sober death-match where it's calculated
There's a real chance you could actually still end up on good terms with this guy because men can bury hatchets, especially over alcohol. Like others have said, address your drinking problems
We all fall ill to our vices, don't let this incident haunt you for life
Blingo123 about a week ago
Hey, Honestly you sound like a very intelligent man. Thank you for writing your comment. Yes I have addressed my drinking problem a little bit haha. I only drink at home or at my friends house. its currently 05:38 in the UK and I'm just waiting for the shops to open so I can go get some beers because I don't have any weed to smoke. I finished work really late (23:00) last night so never managed to go to the shop.
I usually have medical cannabis and some nice hash from my dealer so don't drink much usually. I have a hard time staying sober unless I have work later in the day.
Lone_Ranger about a week ago
Forget about revenge, and forget about embarrassment. This event (having your teeth knocked out) is a blessing - because you can use it as a pivot point to totally turn around your life.
This is your wake up call. Do not ignore it. You will likely not get another wake up call. The train is leaving the station. Go to AA tonight, TONIGHT, and tell them your story. Tell them you went to a bar, blacked out, had your teeth kicked out. DO NOT WASTE ANY TIME wondering if you are an alcoholic or not. I don't know you at all brother, but I can tell from what little you have told me, you are an alcoholic.
If you think that you had a terrible night, you aint seen nothing yet. If you carry on drinking, you'll look back at the night you had your teeth kicked out as the good old days.
This is the wake up call that will help you pivot onto a different life. Trust me - go to AA tonight, tell your story to the other guys, and listen to some people that will understand you.
You can have so much. You can have a rich and interesting life. But you cannot have that and alcohol. it's one or the other.
SeasonedRP about a week ago
If you weren't the instigator, and these people attacked you without justification, you could sue them and try to recoup your medical expenses.
whytehorse2021 about a week ago
I'd probably sue the bar and the guy who did it as well as the police. They'll probably settle for enough money to pay for your dental work.