Met at a pub through some mutual friends, got her Instagram at the end of the night.
2 days ago which is a few days after we met I sent her a DM and we had a pretty good conversation, then she leaves me on delivered only to text me back after an entire day for some lame ass reason.
Fast forward to now after she finally decides to text and we start talking again, she gives me those stupid 'maybes' when I hint at a date.
How to proceed from here?
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financehardo420 3y ago
leave her on read till she double texts
Problematic_Browser 1 3y ago
Move on. Women aren't non-committal with men they are interested in.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
This.
Also OP, when you say "we start talking again", that's a big indicator that you're still thinking like a bloop.
You dont have "good conversations" with women over text. You are either giving her the tingles through, at most, some banter filled with teasing and sexualizing before setting the date, or you're a bore and a simp.
iuliuscaesar 3y ago
It was a good conversation because she wasn't taking hours to respond not because wrote eachother paragraphs but I get what you're saying.
She's definetly playing some type of game it almost feels like she follows a specific script.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
There's always a game being played. Dont let anyone fool you into thinking otherwise.
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ArchieDarley 3y ago
thanks for Rana Ahmed this blog
BabyUareSoSexy 3y ago
How to proceed? NEXT.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Two possibilities,
She's not interested. Women who are make it easy
Or
She is interested but is doing a retarded female dating strategy of looking hard to get just for the sake of not looking easy.
I'm guessing it's the first reason
Either next her NOW (which is what I would do in this case) or ask her one last time and then next her for good
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
This is why we TEXT FOR LOGISTICS. You gotta keep moving things forwards
She either got bored or busy elsehwere.
Texting you back is an IOI, especially if it's for a lame ass reason.
She either isn't attracted, isn't comfortable, or isn't excited by you.
"Maybe" is a step back..... best response is to mirror her.....
You: "date"
Her: "Maybe"
You: "Your'e right, it's not a good idea".
Her: "Oh, why nottttttttttttt????"
etc.
No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
Me: I'm going to go do X this weekend.
Her: "Are you going by yourself?"
Me: Yeah. If you can behave yourself, I'll let you tag along.