I stopped beating my meat/watching porn hella long ago (switched to fleshlight + ig pics of chicks I wanna fuck/imagination lmao).
It worked wonders like w my ex chick I’d nut all the time; takes like 30min-1hr or so but would nut without fail.
Been fucking couple other broads and idk it’s like a damn challenge to nut. One of my plates is an absolute champ in bed; sucks my dick w 2 hands, rides reverse, etc etc fucks better than my ex but I find it hard to nut. She’s only been able to get me off herself once (swallowed) every other time I’ve had to jerk myself off to blow my load.
Is it just cause I’m used to how my ex feels or what?
Skev77 3y ago
Similar problem, I’m thinking is a form of performance anxiety. Try to Google the topic to find some more info. For me it’s either hard for me to get up (nerves) or once it’s up, I’m not cumming.
financehardo420 3y ago
Idek how I have performance anxiety; I committed myself to becoming the iron chef of pounding vag since hs and I pretty much have it down to a science now. Never get trouble getting hard; only thing I notice I do subconsciously is like my boner flexes right before I feel like I’m ab to nut and then it goes away. So fuckin annoying cause I literally be shooting buckets when I do :/
whytehorse2021 3y ago
ChatGPT
It is hard to tell exactly what the cause of your difficulty in achieving orgasm is without further information. It could be a physical or psychological issue, or even a combination of both.
There may be some individual factors that lead to difficulty in reaching an orgasm. These could include stress or performance anxiety, certain medical conditions (e.g. diabetes or thyroid disorders), neurological issues and medications.
It is also important to consider how comfortable you feel with your partner and the quality of your relationship. Feeling relaxed and connected with your partner can help with arousal and reaching orgasm. Consider talking about this together and discussing anything that may be impacting your sexual experiences.
You might find it helpful to explore pleasure and self-pleasure techniques through masturbation. This could be a useful way to gain insight into what type of stimulation works best for you and what turns you on. Some individuals who have difficulty achieving orgasm have reported greater success with focusing on pleasure-seeking instead of goal-orientated sex.
It could also be beneficial to work with a healthcare professional or sex therapist to discuss any underlying issues or fears. You don't have to go through this alone and there are various treatment options available.
financehardo420 3y ago
Lmfao fuckin chat gpt doesn’t clap cheeks. These girls are hot as hell but ya ig I’m lacking the connection part.
Cal-Dirty 3y ago
It happens. You're desensitized to sex. It's a good thing. It means you're getting all you want. Unless you want to go down the road of weirder and weirder stuff to get you off (which I don't recommend), you need to start using tools to help the situation.
financehardo420 3y ago
These are the pointers I needed to hear lol. That nails it to a T my priority whenever I fuck a new chick is to make damn sure she has the wildest orgasm of her life so I get repeat biz whenever I want. Need to start prioritizing myself lol
User4566 3y ago
What color is your fleshlight?
financehardo420 3y ago
Pink like pussy baby
nicknack 3y ago
I had this same issue, went away once I stepped up the quality of women. You might think they’re hot (I sure did), but they’re not. You’re not not forming the right connection with them because why would you, your body is defending itself from doing that with a mid bitch. I used to not be able to nut for hours; fuck with Olympic athlete endurance. I once fucked a chick for like 8 hours straight taking only small breaks, before cumming. Now; 2 years ago, I met a girl who was head to toe so attractive to me, pretty much a real 9/10, and until I got my shit under better control I was ready to bust 5 seconds after putting it inside her, no joke. Usually it takes me forever and good skills to finish from a bj, this one the moment it was in her mouth I was ready.
I think you just gonna find a more attractive girl. This chick of mine had too high a body count (chad athletes at that), and 2 tattoos, so i broke it off with her to move back to Eastern Europe. Since then though, back to lasting long in bed, with 7/8s.