You're actually heading towards the perfect situation for chicks in their 30s. Once chicks hit the 'ready to settle down stage' they start looking for 'chumps with bucks'. They will see you as the perfect mark. Bang them all, just never take them seriously. Here in a few years, you'll be able to run rotations of chicks who don't realize you're really red pill, and will never actually give them the ring. In the meantime, if you don't want to step up your status, do the same thing to early 20s single moms, looking for a bread winner. I know it 'feels' like it isn't ideal - but you do not want an LTR with western women, anyway. As long as you have different chicks rolling through, giving you free back rubs and bjs, you're living like a king. Smile, and enjoy it. Don't give them anything. And move on as soon as they start to feel comfortable enough to start drama. The main thing - don't drag it out trying to keep getting some, with any of them. You don't want to ever trigger them into thinking 'they have the right to attack'. And NEVER tell them you love them. That's doom, friend.

Can you get 24/7 private/live in care for him. It has to be mentally demanding for one person to be constantly on the watch

Can you improve your income with time saved and then get him professional care or get him abroad for such (does he have local drinking buddies) can you use saved time on researching better help options

Nothing wrong with MGTOW. But be honest to yourself - you still want money, mucle and game. MGTOW doesn't mean slacking off, it means doing things for YOU and NOT to get women.

So then what's the difference? Personally, I'm more on the MGTOW side too. When I workout, I don't focus on looking good, I focus on being healthy. That means I spend more time on mobility training, cardio and functional exercise instead of pure bodybuilding (which is beneficial and more time effective when it comes to dating).

Or game: I still practice my game, but not so much with the intention to smash but rather to be likable and have a good time.

It is defeatism

You're 25, all these hot 21-24 year old party girls are at your fingertips

You're just in time for the party. Lift hard, improve yourself, cut off women who waste your time and you'll catch up and exceed most men

It seems your number one enemy is your mind.

What is it you really want?

Get clear on that first and don't lie to yourself.

At 25, your life as a man has just begun.

So, what can I actually do, in actionable steps I mean, to come out of this tunnel vision?

Take massive action. It won't happen overnight, but you'll get there. MGTOW is sour grapes, don't fall for it.

First of all, move out. You're the company you keep.

Second, no one is gonna give you the lie you want. Go out and take what you want.

Third, don't just LARP the sidebar like 90% of the fucktards here, implement it.

Hey man don’t worry you’re on the right path. You’re 25; you’ve still got 10 years till peak SMV. Stack your shekels, hit the gym, and eat healthy. Do NOT commit to dating seriously until after you’ve achieved your peak SMV otherwise you’ll be selling yourself short brotha

25 is not too late. 45 is not too late.

Six figures business (in my local Asian currency).

Err...... that sounds like fuck all, dude.

e: no place of my own, an alcohol addicted father to take care of, and my own doormat self-sacrificing beta tendencies. Sometimes, I just feel like giving up altogether.

Get your own place.

Help your father but don't be dependent on him.

Options will make you less of a doormat.

You CAN fix this.

25 isn't too late. I didn't swallow the pill until I was 40. Sounds like you're off to a good start.