I'm dating a women whose 28 She admitted she used to use tinder when I asked her if she used dating apps she told me she used to hook up with guys but she doesn't care about them or her past and is changed now
Now that she told me that I just feel really beta dating her Am I just insecure ?

User4566 3y ago
You should be happy as fuck she told you that! Now you can proceed to demote her as a plate!
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MrSupreme 3y ago
It's more the fact that she let you know. She doesn't care enough about hiding it from you,probably will have trouble respecting you in the future. Pump her and don't commit
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
If you commit to that we don't know what to say, she's for recreational use only. You've read the side bar. I know you've read the sidebar, you know why already
miserabletogreat 3y ago
She admitted that, so you’re very sure that she has done those things
But what about for example religious women, I think it isn’t too bad with Christians, they’re not that sanctimonious
But especially Muslim women who know fucking is prohibited from their religion, they do it anyways and if a man asks them whether they fucked or something they lie and say no or say “that’s between me and God” “I can’t disclose my sins” (the Holy book says it)
How are you supposed to find out whether she was a slut in her past or not?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
It's not hard to figure out her slut past. Sluts always tattle on themselves.
They're sluts. They are so slutty that they will always leak out info that correlates with sluttery. Even when they think they're being sneaky it's obvious enough because whatever lifestyle and decision making choices they make always ooze out into their statements
Things they are so numbed to they let slip not knowing how slutty they're revealing themselves to be. Trust me man, no genuine slut is gonna hide it effectively because the attitudes and behaviors that lead them to sluttery are not maskable despite their best efforts
miserabletogreat 3y ago
Thanks, you’re right, last time a girl grabbed my dick and you could just see that she had a lot of experience
Ill keep it in mind
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miserabletogreat 3y ago
Thanks fot the tipss
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Sleep with a virgin and then sleep with a hoe. The difference in their level of experience is obvious. But the truth is they can lie so it doesn't matter what they say. Proceed as if they're hoes until they prove otherwise.
miserabletogreat 3y ago
Smart, thanks
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You are right to be disgusted.
Are you getting more for your commitment, or less?
They got to fuck her for free, are you still happy with your deal ?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
OP take this advice. I was fucking a FWB on repeat for free while like 2-3 men were taking her out to dinner and breakfast repeatedly and then she'd go home with me after
Don't commit to that shit
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Well, to be clear..... when I said "are you still happy with your deal", the answer might well be yes.
The answer could be "I see her, she sucks my dick, she pays for meals and fun dates, the deal is so great I don't care how many guys fucked her for free because what I get is so awesome".
Or it might be "Why the fuck am I 100% committed to this girl who rarely fucks me when these other guys fucked her with zero cost to themselves".,
My approach is to assume they are all slutty as hell, and I expect the deal for me to be good enough that it doesn't matter. I no longer believe that any of them have neo-virgin-value...... but thank god I am not looking for a mother.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
It's rough. Only spend time on girls putting out within a reasonable amount of dates and don't commit to a slut
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Einsamer 3y ago
Don't do that. Just observe her behaviour, it will tell you enough.
Apart from that, the others here already said everything that's important.
tenfour 3y ago
I'd say you can ask certain things where plausible deniability exists. Dumb girl or extremely slutty will not even recognize there is any threat from revealing she used DATING app, not FUCK ME app. Also setting, stage of relationship and mood will influence how far you can go.
Say you had 1-2 drinks and laugh your ass off saying 'and I met this girl on Tinder and she had her beloved pet stuffed on her fireplace, did you use Tinder?'. Asking this after saying 'I fucked so many sluts off Tinder, real trash' wouldn't work. Also first question is plausible deniability for oneself and will not raise shields, if topic will be dropped right away without any awkwardness.
Einsamer 3y ago
I'd still not do it. You can ask "what do YOU think about tinder" and then she might say "no idea, never used it" or "love it". Much better.
You can also just assume things: "lol, with your hairstyle I bet you didn't even get 10 matches per day on tinder"
But straight up asking is dumb and boring imho.