Just want some quick tips on avoiding feelings of oneitis. It's annoying and a hindrance to be up in feelings and have my mind preoccupied during the evenings about a girl I'm seeing when that time is better spent on my projects or at the very least, I don't want to have those crushing feelings of loneliness.

I can pull the girls I'm attracted to quite well, I seem to be attracted to a significantly lower quantity of girls compared to the average guy, but I seem to have trouble dealing with more than one at a time. I'm very busy with work, workout regimens, sports and own projects, and I don't feel like I just have the mental energy to be spinning multiple chicks. I know that the idea is to get them to spin themselves but it seems to take an a lot of effort to get that started and I'm still thinking about them in the time between lol.

Any thoughts?