hello brothers. in online dating, what is the best response to "tell me about yourself" or "sure, let's go out, but I want to know more about your first" so as to not give away too much/waste your time but also to get her to meet? of course they're gauging for status/money, but how to not come off as a sperg or beta-bucks and keep them interested enough to go out with you? p.s. in my profile, I don't indicate my job and neither do my pictures - just me, me with friends, hobbies etc.
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Lionsmane8 1y ago
Get off the apps.
Lone_Ranger 1 1y ago
ditch OLD and go out in the real world. OLD is not worth the time investment. If you're wondering why they are so slow at responding, and why they answer with 4 words or less, and why they expect an essay from you that is 'fun and interesting' its because they are juggling responses, messages, likes and swipes from 20-30 thirsty and desperate simps at the same time.
At least if you are talking to a woman in the real world you know that its you and only you that is talking to her (if she can bear to not look at her phone for more than 15 seconds). IRL convos are the way to stop wasting time. You will know if a woman is not interested in less than 5 seconds IRL, so you can go on your way and try the next one. In OLD, that could be a 2 month process. The enjoy the interest that you show, so they are unlikely to let you know that they're not interested. For them, its better to have 20 guys swiping and messaging them. Then they can meet up with their girlfriends in starbucks, and while have a schoko-loco-coco-mocho-poko (for only $8) they can complain to each other about how they are being 'hounded' by 'dozens' of guys on OLD. About how its 'such a drag' that there are just 'so many dudes that want to get with them'. They love a bit of humblegragging.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
"tell me about yourself" means she is a timewaster. The idea is that you qualify yourself to her, and she gets even more attetion.
be specific yet vague...... "I've got a cool job and I have fun in life...... let's meet".
Be prepared to walk away from timewasters
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Use the almighty instagram gossip machine. "Oh yeah you can find all about me here on insta @TinderSwindler". Then go watch fresh and fit explain how to use insta to get social proof and preselection and have these chicks eager to meet. Finally you use urgency and bam they come.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
i've never had an instagram. how much time would it take to build an account that can get me laid?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I dunno but I wouldn't spend more than a day and then just do an occasional photo upload every time you're with a new chick. Be sure to get them to follow you because other chicks see that and think you're a chad.