So first off I have to say that I clearly don’t have oneitis for this girl or care about her in any way. This post has a story so follow along.
I matched with this girl on Facebook dating literally two years ago.
I asked her out for coffee after building some rapport. I had asked her out for drinks beforehand but she said she didn’t drink so I offered to get coffee with her. I still have the Facebook dating chats. She said she would like to know more about me and I said, “That’s why I’m offering to meet you for coffee”.
She asked what I was looking for and I lied and said a relationship and asked what she was looking for. She said “forever” (awwwwwwww /s)
After that was through I asked if she wanted to meet that night at 1:21 PM and she didn’t respond until like 8 and said it was a little late for coffee. At the time I was a bit more angry with women and so I told her she lost her chance because she didn’t respond.
She claimed I disappeared until 8, which I didn’t because I messaged her at 1:21 and she didn’t respond until 8.
Then, as a beta, I explained that I messaged her at 1:21 and I said maybe there was a Facebook glitch. She said maybe and I said let’s text and she offered Facebook chat.
I told her my name so she could send me a Facebook request and she didn’t.
8 months later I was going through my matches and I messaged her and she complained that she isn’t into the “disappearing act”.
I told her that I sent her my name and she didn’t add me.
She said “I sent it almost a year ago”.
I told her I never got it and asked her name.
I was just trying to fuck.
She gave me her name and I added her on Facebook.
We messaged a bit and I just tried to get her on a date and she was responding but got all bitchy and said “Idk why you would expect me to just meet you when you never even communicate”.
I didn’t feel like explaining myself or pretending I cared or anything so I just gave her a “what do you want to talk about”.
She read it and didn’t respond.
She has had a boyfriend since then, which I saw because we’re friends on Facebook. Of course now she’s single because she’s an entitled whore.
The other day we matched on Bumble.
We sent a couple back and forth messages, with the second message of mine including me asking her out for drinks.
She responded with, “I’d have to know you better.. Plus I don’t really drink much”
I am annoyed with the entitlement of this whore.
As someone who once spent 6 months dreaming of a (different) girl before getting her on ONE date, then having that girl say she wasn’t ready to date after I wasted of shit ton of my time and my emotional well being “getting to know each other”, I refuse to give in to these stupid demands. That other girl didn’t even make dumb demands like this, and the other girl was way hotter.
I just want to know why this post wall whore is making such demands? Her bio says she wants kids someday, and she’s 32. I didn’t know she was that old.
I honestly feel like taking her down a peg by telling her that over 90% of her eggs are dead and that she will end up childless and alone if she thinks she can expect me to bend over backwards to get to know her before even meeting. At 32, you know how many guys this girl has fucked? Even if she only fucked guys she was in a relationship with, the fact that she was Facebook official with a guy for less than a year tells me she’s fucked too many guys to be worth anything. She’s not having my kids obviously but she is going to mess it up with guys who would potentially give her children.
I don’t even feel like gaming this girl or trying. Even in my beta time I dropped this girl and gave her attitude for being entitled, at this point I am just in awe at how retarded she is.
Edit: I sent this: “We can go to a park or something. But typically when a girl expects a guy to get to know her before a simple date, I assume that she is hiding something and wants him to get attached so he’ll overlook her flaws. Is there something wrong with you that I should know about?”
Problematic_Browser about a month ago
Women make time for the men they want.
There are two women in my town that I want to tell you about:
Woman 1 is a single mom of 3, has a job and is a full time college student. Whenever she has the chance, she's trying to see me.
Woman 2 has no kids, works only 20 hours a week, and I never hear from her despite her professed interest in me.
Which woman is more interested?
The answer is the one that makes the time
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
So is woman number 2 not interested at all?
Problematic_Browser about a month ago
Not one bit.
Pay attention to their actions, not their words.
Bulba about a month ago
Don’t even bother with women over 25 unless they’re extremely easy. You’re just wasting your time thinking about this chick
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
I haven’t bothered too much with her but I’m just shocked at how retarded women can be. Either go on a date with me or don’t message me, it’s that simple.
Bulba about a month ago
You can expect all sorts of nonsense after a woman reaches a certain body count. If you want to completely avoid this kind of situation, simply don’t deal with girls over 25.
Doricel about a month ago
If you want to know why she does it it's because she wants your validation.
Doricel about a month ago
Why do you wven waste your time on her? A woman that wants you will put the effort to see you and if she's not putting the effort she is probably not interested (do you think she would be entitled with chad?) Stop wasting your valuable time on her, she isn't worth it.
Go and improve yourself king.
Lionsmane8 about a month ago
I understand that there are girls that require a little bit more of mental lubrication before getting to spend time with you in person and escalate physicially. But usually those are shy, young or even conservative types.
In your case you got your hands on an obvious attention whore and you are feeding her starving ego by over-pursuing her.
Attention whores have no intention of actually getting with a man, they just like the validation of being pursued. They are like shop browsers that ask to try on a ton of shit but have no intention of buying anything.
Put your foot on the ground, tell her when and where to meet and ask her to join you because you'll be there anyways.
If she flakes, move on.
Learn to screen for these clowns. And get off the social media shit.
Acela_nextel about a month ago
Why are you soo adamant on stalking these women on social media bro?
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
The one I stalked was a different one. I truly don’t care about this one, she isn’t even nearly as cute as the other one.
Acela_nextel about a month ago
Why are u stalking them if they’re clearly not interested? It’s not a guessing game dude
redhawkes about a month ago
The entitlement is because of thirsty simps like you.
You wrote a whole novel about some roastie, then said it's not oneits. It's simply fuck yea or fuckoff.
Lmaoo
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
Your comment lacks social intelligence and you are coming across as a retard. This is a forum about female behavior - just because I make a post doesn’t mean I have oneitis.
kurkumaonce about a month ago
I think I know where you might be. I'd think it is the anger phase and ego locks you.
Some rules are simple: she is either into you or not.
As opposed to @redhawkes I don;t think your primary issue is sidebar. Further I would guess that you feel battered and cant get over the other chick. From the time you stopped posting about her there isn't even this much time, so you're still in some anger/ego phase.
You also have FOMO.
If you won't go mentally easier on yourself you will get crazy.
EDIT: and however hard it is not to lash out/be negatively sarcastic on fellow guys here it is good exercise to keep frame IRL
redhawkes about a month ago
I'd take you seriously if you weren't a simp. Now, back to the sidebar.
mattyanon about a month ago
This comment is not helpful and shows little insight
redhawkes about a month ago
This is entry level post. It can be answered by just reading the title.
Besides that, it's been answered numerous times by now. Maybe add a search form so people can look it up.
Lone_Ranger about a month ago
didn't get to read this as it is waaay too long. You seem to be asking, why do women match with you on OLD and then slow to reply, slow to make arrangments.
The reason is this: because she is managing 30+ simps on her SM, IG, and OLD all at the one time. You have to realise that digital SM / OLD has become the prize for retarded modern women. They get the validation they need simply by guys like you messaging them online. They enjoy you (and 30 other dudes) messaing them all the time. It makes them feel desired, without them actually even needed to leave the house. She is mostly likely sitting with some girlfiend, humble bragging to each other about the 'dozens' of guys that are chasing them.
This is why I never bothered with any of the OLD / SM stuff. It's bullshit.
IRL game is the only way (IMHO) - you can smell a time waster straight away.
kurkumaonce about a month ago
we have discussed that here before, some dating app said that 10% guys get almost all chicks
I remember Fallen's pic and he is not the one.
I don't even get the matches on them when I do it - but IRL I get IOIs. Like ON dance classes It is whole lot diff game I already have one 19yo fangirl. SHe is so shy that I'm trying to work out is she shy or very crazy
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
I’ve never posted my pics here so I’m not sure what you’re talking about.
kurkumaonce about a month ago
unless you posted someone else you asked about your form - faceless. It could be someone else as well I didn't keep the bookmark.
IBelieveInTheFallen about a month ago
Oh yeah I posted my arm. Okay my arm isn’t top 10% lol
kurkumaonce about a month ago
then it wouldn't be you as I remember whole torso, boxers, some legs and big package, shame really the package was drawing attention and the rest can grow anyway
mattyanon about a month ago
Right, avoid the timewasters.
Because she's a timewaster.
Haha....... totally true, but it won't go well or get you any good result, she'll just lash out and block you.
You're right with "get attached and overlook his flaws". Women love being courted by a tonne of men all trying to get with her. That's because she's a TIMEWASTER.
Another factor: average looking girls love stringing along hot guys, which is easy to do with Tinder etc. She wants to avoid meeting for two reasons:
She's got major flaws and knows it. Meeting is a big risk to her because he might not like her due to faking her profile somewhat. So she wants certainty that the guy will like her. But if she has that certainty she gets bored and feels she can get better, sooooooooo
She can flirt with hotter guys than will meet and fuck her
Lone_Ranger about a month ago
The reason most women try to delay the meet up is that they older and fatter than their profile states. I've heard of guys that can't even recognise their dates when they finally do meet with them. If a woman is on OLD, she is basically not getting any interest in IRL. Which means she is fat or old or both.
User4566 about a month ago
I hear you. In this scenerio, I'd drop it and move on. I just had to do that with a few girls right now because they don't want to hang out exclusively.