Old oneitis hit me up after two years of no contact. We met for dinner at a cool place I picked and she was very giddy and flirty but I failed to escalate at all...
A little later we met up again when I invited her to see a cool abandoned bridge with me. When I picked her up she seemed tired and somewhat uninterested compared to last time. When we got close to the bridge she said we should come back another day early in the morning when there are no people nearby. Apparently she had two flag football games that morning and hardly got any sleep.
I just agreed and took her home. How could I have pressed on when she clearly wasn't having it.
Should I even reach out again? I'm trying to be cautious since I used to have a bad crush on her and don't want to give off those vibes. But she's hot so I feel like I should just try and get a clear rejection before calling it quits.
And YES I am talking to other girls!
AllBlack087 about a month ago
I understood from the title that she sucked you off on a second date
mattyanon about a month ago
Wrong mindset.
If she's not feeling it you happily ditch her...... "look girl, you're not feeling it today and that's fine, I'll see you another time" and drop her off.
Give her a week and hit her up with something nondescript...... but definitely imply you are having fun elsewhere.
Good!!!
Lionsmane8 about a month ago
First date was a mistake. You paid for dinner for a girl you haven't banged yet?
Payment in advance man. I don't spend money on food on a woman until i get some sexual equity from her before (at least a bj).
You essentially already validated her by giving her red carpet treatment. And believe me she can sense that you like her a bit too much.
I don't know what the other guys have to say, but i wouldn't contact her again, maybe after some time has passed, or if she contacts me again.
Remember, you can only get the women you are prepared to lose.