Hey guys so I've been busy working on myself for the past 2 years (lifting, making $, getting another degree) so I have only had time for hookups here and there but nothing serious. Recently I F-closed a girl I really like this last weekend who has LTR potential. I wanna see this girl again but don't want to come off as too interested because after sex she said just broke it off with a guy she was "dating" for 2 years but he never really put a label on a relationship and she enjoys being single. How do you guys act/game girls you see potential with after you have sex with them and want to continue seeing them?? I want to chase but don't want to scare her off and the right thing to do seems to just be patient and let her come to me. It's crazy how girls will still play these games even after you had sex with them!
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nicknack 3y ago
Any girl who would have sex with a guy and not chase him afterwards is far from LTR material. She’s damaged goods with a burnt out ability to pair bond. Likely due to that ex she mentioned.
My personal rule is after we have sex she has to take the initiative to see me again ( I can bring up seeing each other, but she has to call me or text me first to basically make that happen). As if she is willing to give her pussy to a man no strings attached, then I don’t want her, as she’ll do it like that to the next man and the one after.
From what you wrote here, I already see this girl is not LTR material, don’t delude yourself. Just keep her as a plate like the whore she is.
Edit: TLDR: she’s damaged goods, a whore forever who will bring many men good memories / weekends away from their wives and gfs, but it’s impossible for her to be a good LTR to anyone now apart from maybe a man in his 70s
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Yikes.
nicknack 3y ago
I know it sounds harsh, but read OP’s name. He’s a recovering simp, and he needs to hear it like this without any sugar coating.
Skev77 3y ago
I could appreciate the bare bones approach.
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mattyanon Admin 3y ago
So much hamstering here.
Just hit them up again when you want to see them again. It doesn't need a label, but if she wants a LTR with you, she'll let you know. It's best that she decides that this is what she wants, and then negotiates the relationship with you (which she will do in a clumsy and awkward manner).
Yes.
So play your own games: look for other girls, be straightforward with her.
Fundamentally just proceed as if you're having the relationship you want with her. If she doesn't comply, NEXT.
nicknack 3y ago
This is good advice if we are talking about a half decent girl, but we are talking about a girl here who let chad fuck her for 2 years without him having to LTR her. OP needs to snap out of this desire to LTR her now that she’s older and dropped by chad, what kind of deal is this? Might as well LTR a used flesh light.