Last night I got head for the second time, it was in her car. Just like last time I couldn’t finish. I’ve cut masturbation out of my life for the past week. One thing I noticed this time is I think I paid too much attention to her and making her feel good (fingering) so I forget to enjoy what she’s doing to me.
Tomorrow we’re gonna fuck and I wonder if it’s even something I should be worrying about.
MidgetSpinner 3y ago
I like a girl sucking on it, especially if she knows how grip it well and is passionate about how she does it, but I don't really ever cum from it. I need more stimulation. I just see it as foreplay that feels good, turns me on more. I'd rather go down on girls than them go down on me, that actually turns me on more. You just need to relax, dude.
User4566 3y ago
I can't cum from head most of the time. I also can't cum from hand-jobs because women usually pull too hard or grab too tight thing it makes it better.
I'd recommend finishing yourself off and shooting it on her/in her mouth.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
I have trouble with head too. Could be death grip from beating meat.
I find girls that blow me have to do it at certain angle and apply more pressure on a certain part of my dick.
It might be that you just need a certain stimulation, rather than that you can't climax
Also, if I'm not genuinely into a girl i think I struggle from head. Head is a very visual sex act
gpman290 3y ago
I’m pretty into this girl, I had read up on prone masturbation, was a thing I did a few times a year but still hard enough to do the damage I reckon. Fingers crossed my dick goes back to normal
Problematic_Browser 1 3y ago
Naw.
Some guys (myself included) don't cum from oral. It's just not satisfying and - frankly - women suck at it.
I occasionally get my cock sucked by shemales if I'm really in the mood to cum from oral. Yeah. I said it.
gpman290 3y ago
Damn… I respect it.
This girl is definitely good at sucking dick, I know I don’t have anything to compare to but she loves it so much that she’s had an orgasm doing it without being touched, loves getting facefucked, taking the whole thing, etc…
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
focus on what feels good, tell her, direct her to do what you want when she's giving head and just having sex in general.
Some girls give a death grip, some girls just go to fast, some don't know how to use their tongue, some do it too much. Tell her what's good, what's not.
when you fuck, take your time, explore her body, just take it in and have fun, stop thinking so much.
Einsamer 3y ago
Don't worry, it happens. Techniques are different and some girls are also just better than others.
Here it's really on you though. If you can easily get off when masturbating and you are into here, then the simplest thing is tell her to use her hand. Show it to her; say "here's how I love it" and put your hand on hers, show her the speed/grip/movement-range you like. If the then uses her mouth too (maybe not even as much as she will focus on her hand) then that should get you going easily.
dongking 3y ago
It helps alot to allow yourself to be in the moment and just enjoy it. Now in the beginning don't think of her pleasure at all while getting head.
Also be specific if she does something that you like or dislike when she's blowing.
For example I love when a girl sits on her knees and just sucks my tip with abit of saliva. No hands. And not really sucking hard with alot of pressure, more like using her mouth/lips as a pussy and sliding it back n forth on my tip. So I make my plates do just that and train them exactly how I want it.
It's seriously one of the strongest nuts I can bust when I get milked like that. She has to keep sucking while I'm cumming too. It's knee weakening. Highly recommend.
gpman290 3y ago
Thanks DK, gonna try implement this tomorrow.
Speaking of that, we’re seeing eachother pretty much every day (holidays). Worried one of us might get bored, should I pull back a bit?