Just got back to university and just can't get in the mood to go out and fuck hot chicks. I doubt it's low T since I weigh 170, bench 280 and jump really high, for fucks sake I should literally be Chad in this setting but I'm womp womp up in my feelings all the time. My roommates told me yesterday they assumed I was piping thisn really hot girl they saw me with so people perceive me that way but I'm just being a pussy lately. Listening to aggressive rap seems to help a little but that induced mood doesn't last
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vangelis 3y ago
Lack of purpose, lack of accomplishment, lack of compound lifts. Assuming it's not medical
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Need more context to give a meaningful answer, otherwise I'm just guessing.
Are you depressed, get rejected often, difficult past with women, something happen over winter break, got rusty? Like what do you think is contributing to this first and foremost?
Short answer is, find what you find fun about women and how they compliment your life, get amped about having that in your life, and then seek it out and let it happen
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kv2_0833 3y ago
I was fairly socially isolated during my internship (software company working remotely living in dead suburb). I am a bit depressed mainly after losing a parent 4 years ago but by this point I try not to let it affect me/should be moved on. There's 2 hot chicks I've history with that I see sometimes but they're very hot and cold in long cycles so I want to go meet new people since they're not very reliable. I guess I just need time to settle
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kv2_0833 3y ago
Oh it 100% is. I solely focused on developing my image/style, raising T and developing a killer body over the past 1.5 years, thinking it would get me where I want. It's helped a little and when I see myself in a reflection in a crowd I stand out positively but I swear I sometimes feel like such an imposter lol
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
This seems to come up often. Look, there is a reason why 90% of guys your age are sitting on their asses playing video games; it's fun, super easy, and can even give a fleeting sense of pride and accomplishment.
On the other hand, self-improvement actually requires focused effort. So what to do? Get out of your own head, because there's nothing wrong with you. Consider your life goals and what you're doing to accomplish these; be it school, work, lifting, etc. Most of them have nothing directly to do with women.
But this might not be filling up your schedule. So you have to choose what to do with the time left over. Do you want progress and self improvement, or do you just want to chill and waste your time? Allow yourself a bit of both. Most of the time there is no "mojo"; that's just a mental state you happen to get into once in a while. The rest of the time self-improvement requires discipline.
I suggest you set some simple goals for you to achieve while you go about your day. Frequent cold approaching is a good habit to get into. Being able to find a lover within a short amount of time is a great skill to have in life.
kv2_0833 3y ago
Yeah I'm a big subscriber to self improvement. I play a lot of sports and have recently gotten into picking up the guitar. I like your point about filling up the time left over with cold approaching, I think I rely on my looks and certain intermittent social connections too much
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
In the beginning you should dedicate some time to it because it's hard. When you get better you just integrate it into your daily routine, not going out of your way for it, but actively making the most of your daily encounters.
Normal, and it's just a step above being unattractive and blue pilled.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
With the way women are these days, I don't blame you. I haven't approached any women in the US in 18 years. They're so insufferable. Even street whores think they're God's gift to mankind. Sometimes you gotta just go your own way and live your life for you instead of women.
kv2_0833 3y ago
I mean I kind've do that, but the attention of hot girls to me is still like crack, it might be since I'm only 20 years old but I genuinely do enjoy the time I spend with them.
redhawkes 2 3y ago
It happens. The biggest reason is isolation. You become socially retarded when you isolate yourself for a long time, just check every other question at this forum. Lack of sun/sleep and vitamin D also can contribute to that.
Another reason is confidence, especially if it's tied to something external and you lose it. In that case, you need to read on internal locust of control. It's not a bad idea to do a full hormones spectrum check. If you feel tired, check thyroid T3 and T4 serum.