This was NOT a false sexual assault accusation, thank god. But it was a crazy girl I hardly know making up ridiculous things about me.
It sounds so bizarre to type out because what this girl was saying about me was so malicious and warped that you guys are gonna think, “man that makes no fucking sense.” Exactly.
So last night I hung out with my best friend and his girlfriend (who both stood up for me when this happened). We met up with 2 girls and 1 guy at a house and hung out there all night, from like 11pm until 5am.
I was chilling the whole time. We played beer pong, had drinks, we were listening to music and I was really digging the music. Well, one of the girls (girl-A let’s say, the psychotic hoe), really wanted me to go to my house to get some shrooms for her to do. Even though it was super out of the way for me, I said sure, because I wanted everyone to have a good time. I ubered to my house, got the shrooms, went back. I took a few, and girl A scarfed down a whole bunch.
Then, I just was enjoying my trip. I was really digging the music. I went into the living room and just listened to music on the couch with my eyes closed.
Well, girl A started lying about me to everyone (which I didn’t know until after we left). She said when I first introduced myself, I made school shooting comments. She said I was making murder jokes and hiding in the bathroom rocking back and forth the entire night (no, I was playing beer pong with everyone else). She said I picked up a knife and told her to stab someone else, then she changed it and said I told her to use the knife and stab me, then she said I “drew” a knife on her. Just completely all over the place making up random shit. My best friend’s girlfriend is a real one. She really stuck up for me and started crying arguing with them that I didn’t do any of this. Again, I didn’t know any of this was happening until we left because I was just chilling on the couch listening to music lmao.
Girl B (the gaslighting hoe) who owned the house told me “if you think murder jokes and school shooting comments are normal, then find your crowd it’s not mine.” I responded to her and said “I never made school shooting comments, please don’t lie about me. I’m really confused and I have no idea what you are talking about.” Girl B responded by saying “I’m not going back and forth with you about this. You made me and girl A feel uncomfortable (who I hardly even talked to, who I went completely of my way for to get shrooms for cuz she was begging me for them).” Like what the fuck. I can’t believe how severe this girl was gaslighting me bro. It was such a mindfuck.
Anyway, I haven’t talked to them again, and like I said my best friend and his gf were sticking up for me, so it’s okay. My friend and his gf are real ones. However I’m gonna be honest, my feelings are hurt. I went out of my way to get shrooms for girl A because she was practically begging me for them, and in return these two crazy hoes try to warp reality and tell me I did a bunch of stuff I didn’t do. Nothing bothers me more than having things misrepresented and then having to deal with that dismissive kind of gaslighting. My best friend said it perfectly, he said “it’s like they created a completely fake reality.”
So yeah. How do you avoid stuff like this from happening without just walking on eggshells your entire life? What would be the masculine, alpha way to deal with/react to this kind of nonsense?

OckerLarrikin 3y ago
I mean no insult, but that's the thanks you get for going out of your way to do something for some random girl. You paid for an Uber and gave her free drugs like a simp. An Alpha male would have told her to get her own fucking mushrooms.
Problematic_Browser 1 3y ago
If it is true, then your actions, not the words of others damn you.
If it is false, then do not concern yourself with it, because you have lived rightly.
apeman 3y ago
U handled it the right way bro
Einsamer 3y ago
Be extra careful when meeting new people. Be extra careful when being new to some location. Be extra careful when taking drugs. Be extra careful when taking drugs with other people.
You can't really avoid bad things, but reduce the chance. Do drugs at home or in places that you know well. Do drugs only with people you know very well. make sure that people you don't know have little information about you and where you whereabouts. I.e. don't share your full name, where you live, where you work, etc. Keep it abstract.
Imagine she actually goes to the police and they come after you. That would put you in a really tough spot.
About lying - can't do much unfortunately. Don't apologize, just say "oh, I never said that, must have been a misunderstanding. I certainly didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable, but I if you feel uncomfortable with me around, it's probably better if I take a leave. Thanks for being open about it." And then just leave.
Or, plan b: record everything you do in a hidden way. I think maybe in our times that's the best to do...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
I got falsely accused in September of "pinning a girl to a car and 'yelling at her' when she 'rejected my advances'"
The story in it's entirety was utter fucking bullshit. I never pinned her to a car. I never yelled at her, and while she did drop me as a sexual partner (she was a short-term plate) I didn't just randomly get turned down, she just didn't feel like coming over that day.
I don't know how or why these accusations got launched on me other than that she got herself kicked out of the group and then possibly tried to take me down with her thinking it was my fault. I did leave the group before she got kicked out, and I never named her or told anyone we were hooking up, she drew too much attention to herself with shitty behavior and outed herself as having slept with me and being dramatic.
At any rate I got permanently barred from rejoining that group and I also lost over half my friends. A dipshit that went to that group and an entirely unrelated group of people I'd been close with for two years went to that group and repeated the accusation and I lost a lot of friends in an entirely unrelated group over it too
Two of my friend groups got gutted from under me in just a few days and I basically had to start over friend-wise.
How I handled it was one, saying pretty vocally that I didn't do it, two) reached out to my closet associates and told them I didn't do it, and 3) broke contact with everyone after defending myself, and 4) just went and lived my life
A bunch of people, including the exact girl that kicked me out of her group, ended up seeing me around town and being extremely friendy to me. Most people were actually pretty understanding about it. A few of them weren't but they can fuck themselves.
It did fuck me up and probably gave me 'acute stress disorder' for a few weeks, but I came out stronger, lost all my shittiest toxic friends that I should've dropped years ago, and now have so much better of social circles
These fucks helped clear out the weeds and I'm so so much happier than I was before the accusations. Bad company is worse than no company and that girl set off a chain reaction that helped me drop every backstabber I knew
I have so much better friends now that actually truly value me. It was all for the better
You handle this primarily by letting every fuck that doesn't believe you let the door hit them on the way out of your life and then go live a better life than you were when these toxic fucks used to be in it. let this experience clear out the weeds so you can find greener grass
whytehorse2021 3y ago
There are people with pathological personalities. Psychedelics really bring it out. I love LSD and used it a lot and saw a lot of other people use it. If someone was normal but had an underlying psychosis, LSD/shrooms would usually trigger it. I am very careful now about the people I let into my life. Part of that is because I have a wife and 2 kids but part came from experiences with new people when I was single.
There isn't an alpha way to deal with it. You just have to respect yourself enough and not be naive enough to let other people be in a position to exploit you. I think 48 laws of power would really be useful for you so that you can know all the ways you can be exploited by pathological people.