There is this phenomenon that I have observed that this post made me want to comment on. With girls I have dated, there is this point in the relationship I personally call the "Sweet Spot." I wish I could come up with a better name but anyway it's that in between stage where you two are not serious or she doesn't see you as long term but you already have been dating and having sex on the regular. It's in this stage where I have noticed is when these girls do all their gut spilling; from point blank, unprompted admissions and confessions with just a little asking. I think it's because she is comfortable enough for her to let her guard down and assuage her conscious of her slut past, yet isn't there yet seeing you as a LTR or marriage material.

Ahh... you're in a relationship ....with a woman....welcome to the madhouse.

That my friend is a classic shit test. She is trying to make you jealous. And most men fall for it. 99%. I fell for it too. It's hard not to. Big strong men are weak in this one area - they are very very prone to jealousy when it comes to sexual partners. Women less so, because of biological reasons (they are never in doubt as to whether they are the mother of any of their children.)

She is trying to get a reaction out of you. There's very little point in saying "dump her, this is shit testing and I will not tolerate it, I want a woman that behaves properly and doesn't destroy a relationship by creating jealousy". There is very little point because you will never find a woman that doensn't do this. The reason why they all do this is because it gives them power in the relationship. When they see that you are jealous, they see that you are hurt, and it makes them stronger. It gives them power. It also destroys the relationship long term.

Listen very carefully - the only way to treat this is to stop it dead in its tracks. This will require discipline - you will have to say something like;

"Listen - I know what you are doing, even if you are not aware of what you are doing. You're trying to make me jealous, so that you can see that I'm hurt, and then you'll be reassured that I care about you. It may have worked in the past, when you were dealing with weak and inexperienced men, but I'm not that guy.

Trying to make me jealous is the way to turn me against you, it's a turn off because its a childs game. So.... don't do it. I'll give you a pass this one time, but be aware, this is the last time you do this in our relationship. Don't ever say or do anything ever again to try and make me jealous. Because I'll just leave. And I won't give you any explanation or feedback, I won't discuss it or enter into any negotiations....I'll just leave. OK? You got that? Good. Now run along."

And when you say this little speech, make sure to hold her by both of your arms, and look her in the eyes. Make sure you are smiling, talking softly, NOT shouting. You need to adopt the posture of a father than is admonishing a young daughter. You're the leader, the teacher. You're not scolding, you're educating this women how to behave in a proper relationship, because from what you've told me, she has NO CLUE how to behave in a relationship. That's probably because she has never been with a real man before. Now you have to tell her that play time is over, and she is dealing with a grown man.

Seriously, a relationship is only as good as the rules and framework that the man sets. It CANNOT be set by the woman.

Source: I have made this mistake too many times in the past and it lead to misery and divorce.

What would you do if we had one night stand and then I blocked you?

Ok, two possibilities here.... but the above is a BIG RED FLAG. It suggests she's toying with the idea of leaving and wants to check it's safe to do so... kinda "you wouldn't hunt me down if I dumped you, would ya? it's safe to dump you, right?".

At least that's how it looks to me.

The rest of it looks like trickle truthing you...... either because she wants all cards on the table prior to escalating the relationship to her advantage (eg marriage or moving in together or getting impregnated)...... or because there is a big confession coming.

Last night she said out of the blue "What would you do if we had one night stand and then I blocked you?"

Wait, you haven't even fucked her yet and have granted her girlfriend status?

I said - What the hell? Why are you asking these questions? Are you planning on cheating on me?

You sound way too worried.

Hmm I think the other commentators are right about letting her know that you won’t tolerate this.

But the bigger question is: what is her sexual past?