I've had this new plate for about 3 weeks now. On our third meetup in the beginning of this week she came over and all was normal. We had sex, watched some series and some banter. You know the drill.

After about 2-3 hours when she was over, after we had already smashed and kissed etc. she goes up to fetch some medicine because she had apparently felt sick the last days. My instant reaction was to ask her "why she didn't tell me before and never repeat it again" - as I would've declined to meet up with that info at hand. She wasn't sneezing or coughing so I couldn't notice before she told me.

As you can imagine, the next day I woke up feeling tired and like I was gonna catch a cold. Then this whole week and still til today I've been stuck with a Man-Cold™.

Currently I'm considering nexting her as I find it disrespectful that she didn't tell me before coming over. Not for covid fear or anything, but I hate even getting a normal cold. Can't go to the gym, can't work properly and make money etc.

On the other hand, I understand it's also "good" in the sense that she obviously went out of her way to fuck me. It's literally a 1 hour bus ride to get to my house for her. I also told her before that she won't sleep over, so she knew that going into it.

So I'm abit split on the whole thing. My gut feeling tells me to next her though, and I will probably follow it. What's your take and what would you do in this exact situation?