I know this sounds ridiculous. But its common knowledge here that a woman's prime is 18-23. At 25 are they still attractive? Generally yes, but they are almost always on a smallll decline at that age and slowly transitioning into the face of a 30 year old woman year by year.
My LTR just turned 23 last month. Im 25. Things are getting serious between us. Im vetting her for marriage, but I fear by the time we actually have kids and I make her my wife (if it happens) that will be in a few years and shell be 27-ish.
I just think its a slow decline from here, but its stupid to think because shes smoking hot already and 23 is still pretty fucking young. Like, 30 can be young, objectively, and im making a big deal that shes on the last year or two of her prime.
I feel like I would never think this if it wasnt for the red pill lol. Is 23 year old LTR too old for a serious relationship? By the time things progress to family or marriage she will no longer be 18-23. Luckily she has a great ass and those usually dont go away with age
I just think in 7 years she will be 30. Im young enough to get an 18 year old. In 7 years she will be 25. Is this shallow? My LTR has some quality traits and those are rare to find, and more improtant than some random 18 year old girl who is not vetted.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I believe 24 is peak fertility in most women. They don't start having problems until age 35. By age 45 they're done and it's all down hill from there. What you do is have kids and then after they're grown send your old first wife off to take care of her parents and get a shiny new wife.
Bulba 2y ago
Notch count matters more than age. The reason why 23 years old is usually too old for a relationship is because by this time most women are already spoiled for life. Thanks to Tinder and Instagram, by age 23 their notch count is already in the double or triple digits and therefore they can't pair bound anymore.
If your girl is an exception to this rule, stick with her.
[deleted] 2y ago
[--removed--]
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
attitude and behaviour counts even more than anything. If you can find a woman who has good behaviour and attitude, treats you properly, then that's more important than anything else about a woman. The thing I most value in a woman (above looks and body) is if they behave like an adult.
95% of women today are kidults. The confuse femininity with childishness. They think its ok to behave like a clueless 9 year old at all times, and expect men to be their daddies.
Einsamer 2y ago
I think you don't know what you want from life. Do you want a wife and have kids in the sense of a tradtional marriage? Then you'll most likely have to sacrifice sex with young, hot girls in the future. But honestly, I think sex is overrated anyways. If she's a good candidate and you want this lifestyle, go with it, no matter how old she is. What matters more is what red flags she has (especially her history) and how she behaves towards you.
fumbor Should i (x1) 2y ago
I get TRP is fixated on these things, but you can't focus on primarily age bruv. The reason age and body count matters is because it usually plays a negative factor in her character. If she exhibits good qualities there's no issue. Judging strictly off age and nothing else seems very primitive.
You just proved your own point. Her age alone isnt gonna make her a better / worse LTR
[deleted] 2y ago
[--removed--]
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
If you think like this, DO NOT MARRY.
I also think in a similar way...... so marriage just doesn't make fucking sense.
You can't have it both ways.... if you get married, her looks are on a decline and you are legally and financially responsible for her. Simple as that, no exceptions. You are paying a price that increases every year for goods that depreciate every year.