So this seemingly only happens to me in the winter. In the summer I hardly get it but I am wanting to cut it out and or know how to approach it in the future.
So talking to this South African girl she’s decent looking. Probably HB8. I ask her when are you free ( silly question should say a date but the conversation was generally flowing and mistakes happen) because I’m pretty busy that weekend aside from the Sunday maybe or friday. She doesn’t reply till Sunday night
I’m terrible for not replying! Sorry I read your message and the week just flew infront of my eyes. How are you?
Now we all know this is nonsense. She doesn’t reply until after the weekend is over and doesn’t even answer the question etc.
Recently I have been calling them out on their nonsense because it’s laughable.
Something normally in this situation would be like. Ah you remembered to reply when the weekend was done and didn’t answer my question or something along those lines.
But that closes the door completely, which I like to do in such situations because I have more self respect than dealing with such women.
On the other hand it’s kinda somehow to say all that and airing them or even playing the game with them can be more fun, like ignoring the message until such a time and pretending nothing happened.
What you guys think

Einsamer 3y ago
It's quite disrespectful. I would never do that to a male friend, even less to someone I barely know.
So what I would do: ignore for a couple of days or a week, then ping her with something unrelated ("Oh I was also busy but just saw X and had to think of you)" and then just ask again. If she again doesn't react, next.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Why call her out for her lack of monogamy? Makes more sense to accept she's a party girl and fuck her accordingly.
She says sorry for being busy all weekend, you say: No problem, I've been busy too ;)
I don't see the point of calling her out when you can join her for fun and frolics.
MrSupreme 3y ago
Don't call her out on her bs,she doesn't owe you any kind of explanation (or honesty), play along with her sillyness and try not being butt hurt about her possible future flakiness, she is like a child