There is this girl at work. I like her but I am cautious cause I always had the policy of never approaching girls at work.
Today while I was talking to someone near the coffee machine she walked by and shoulder bumped me. I am not sure if that was on purpose or accidental. I didn't see if there were other people.standing nearby which gave her less space to move.
In the past she has given me angry looks. I always thought she hated me.
She is in a different team so I have never interacted with her. I am currently overweight so I am leaning more towards an accidental bump
User4566 1y ago
Depends if it seemed intentional or accidental. I wouldn't be able to tell. Next time you see her during break, maybe talk to her.
I wouldn't hit on girls at work though. But that's me.
Skev77 1y ago
Who cares if it was an accident or not. Question is do u wanna approach. I’d gaslight her as an opener “ouch my shoulder hurts. Ppl be bumping into me” point is u can use that as an opener. Girls don’t really approach they just get in the way of the guys they like. Assume she’s down if she isn’t, cool. Next. Good luck.
MrSupreme 1y ago
Shoulder bumps are kind of a manly thing to do,if she's actually coming onto you If not then whatever, don't shit where you eat and be friendly