Context:
I've gone radio silent on a girl that I was considering to LTR because she pulled a nuclear shit test on me (i.e. rationing sex). It's been past a week and since have been reengaging with past leads and sourcing new ones. Lately I've been chatting up an older lead and basically telling her about what happened with the girl i ghosted. She's closer to my age, higher status compared to the other one, but overall slightly lower SMV to the one i was seeing. So I am considering her as a lead, but not overly enthusiastic about it. The girl is swallowing my stories like catnip despite her "maturity" and somewhat higher IQ (smart chicks are still chicks). It's funny, anything related to sex, relationships or other bitches is an instant conversational hook. Anyways, i'm warming up some tea in the kitchen and thinking about what to tell this chick, when it suddenly hit me.
The Epiphany:
It's all about power.
This right here is the missing piece to understand the intersexual dynamics framework. Think about it, it's everywhere at every level. Are you communicating power (most importantly in relation to her) or not? Are you texts coming from a position of power? Are your communications (verbal and non verbal) from a position of power? Are you expressing power? (not faking it ) Are you fucking her with power?
Women have a hard time sucking a weak man's dick, but they'll gobble up yours like a sundae ice cream if she sees you as above her.
Look at your last messages and interactions you've had with women. Look at other men's interactions with women. Who has power, who is expressing power.
It's sad really, especially if you are a sane normal person. You would think that creating a connection, trust, intimacy, understanding and dare i say love would constitute the foundational pillars of a relationship.
No, that's secondary, it's all a powerplay.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
BAD IDEA.... she'll think "what's wrong with this guy, why did she withhold sex".
Right
You would only think this if you WANT to believe that, at TRP we all know it's a complete lie.
It's all about power, options and attractiveness.
imtranscending 1y ago
Can you explain further. We all like to use our biology for reference regarding these things. So why do males get oneitis, that infatuation or love with a specific females. Power also assumes trust/competence. Maybe love can be part of the equation?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
usually because of scarcity
Often not
Nope.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Let me upvote your comment. Especially the last part.
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
First you get the money, then you get the power, and after you get the power, then you get the women.
pofkaf 1y ago
You just described "frame." No need to reinvent the wheel.