after you started observing life through a redpill lens did you notice this with respect to both men and women?
guys will give you really bad fashion advice if you get too much female attention for it. They will ask you to shave if you grow a beard telling how it looks bad on you yet women will like it and strange girls will stare at you more than before.
girls will often fancy and flirt with you in front of normies. as a result the betas who fancy them will use a feminine method of telling you about how the girl is low value, isn't hot, or something like, "ewww, you like her?"or the classic , "she's a whore".
they will pine for the girl but will be unsuccessful with her so they will become angry at both you and the girl. sometimes you might bang her just out of spite for those men you thought were your friends but sometimes you won't because of it being a place you don't want to shit at.
gymcells will lose their mind and throw a fit because most girls in the group will want to be with you. Years of his hard work didn't pay off.
women will get angry if you don't make a move or reciprocate back. I had this one chick when I was in high school. She was basically performing the female version of molestation on me (she was hot af I was autistic so it balances out). she was rubbing her feet against mine, running her hands through my thighs in front of the teacher. we didn't talk or flirt much before. I had a gf back then and was a complete beta and didn't reciprocate. So, eventually the hb started acting like a bitch to me.
women will flirt with you in the open but will try to save their reputation in front of their female friends by trying to make it look like she isn't flirting.
when you are alone they will try to touch you a lot and again if you don't reciprocate she will turn into a bitch after a few days.
women in 40s will be much more aggressive and blunt. they will ask your friends directly to introduce them to you. younger women will do the same but in a sort of discreet way.
men will often band together to start rumours about you being a player or being gay but contrary to their motive the girls will laugh it off and still give more attention to you which in turn make the men sort of threatening violence against you for some made up reason, which they aren't going to follow through at the end.
men will be eager to be your friend until you start to or atleast seem to bang a few chicks in that group they will sort of ostracize you.
pocketroxx 1y ago
Yeah I had the nicest curly hair growing up. My dad hated it, everyone else loved it. He said I looked like a thug badass and that "Im not my hair" whenever I told him I didnt want to cut it. I literally had no reason to. He even tried saying I was trying to be a "tough guy" even. He said one day if i dont cut my hair ill end up being one of those surfer beach bums living in a van on the beach. We are from Los Angeles, so thats a thing out here.
I also recently met a male friend, who we had such a great brothership with eachother. I was dating a girl for the past few months, so when we would go out I wouldnt necessarily be taking girls home, but i would still go out with him to clubs and bars and just enjoy the enviornment. Well I broke up with my chick and when we went out recently, I hooked up with this one girl, that I think wasnt even that attractive. She was like 28 but had a petite nice body but she just wasnt all that to me, but she was conventially attractive generally speaking. Ever since I took her back to my hotel (we both had rooms in the same hotel we went on a friend vacation), he hasnt really been returning my calls or texts since then. IT took me hooking up with a girl for him to start ostracizing me.
Yorue right about not hookin up with girls who give you signals. 100% of the time if a girl you see regularly is super flirty and you dont ask her out, by the 10th time or so she will start treating you asexually or rejecting you in small ways, greeting you in unenthusiastic but polite tones. They wanted you to ask them out by the 3rd time you saw them. If you ask them out like 11th time, theyll reject you, way too late. Theres exceptions to this like coworkers, or certain situations that having sex would be inappropriate, but im talking about more normal circumstances in your daily life.
MyBoyJob 1y ago
What is the point of this thread?
ThrowawayAccount_2k 1y ago
Yes, I definitely feel jealousy coming from guy friends. If I'm interested in a girl and another guy in my group likes her, I won't even go for her. One of my best guy friends who I never had a problem with went clubbing with me a few weeks ago. I made out with a few girls while he couldn't get one. Ever since then he's been treating me like shit and always trying to make me look bad in every situation.
Also, you get to see female nature firsthand. I know this one girl who was dating her boyfriend for 2 years and didn't have sex with him once, even when he drove 30 hours to come to see her. After they broke up, she let me hit the next day.
ESPN 1y ago
What you are observing is that people have a "reality filter" that makes reality more tolerable to their fragile ego.