Met this girl on dating app, had a feeling she was a attention seeking hoe the way she was blowing up my phone. So instead of giving her more attention I quickly asked her out for a date, so I don’t waste my time. As I predicted, she said yes but started replying extremely slow after getting the validation of being asked out. So I stopped responding to her and also since I read her well I was going to just take her out for coffee anyway.
One week passed she reached out to me again, blowing up my phone giving hints to ask her out. This time I don’t think she even deserves coffee, I will only waste time to drive to her if sex is guaranteed. Should I just be direct and be like “I’m down to meet up for the night, if you get what I mean”.
This bitch is a insecure attention seeker, that’s why I’m planning to use direct game, I know on the regular it’s not what u should be doing. Thanks!
Lionsmane8 1y ago
fuck the apps. but in any case, for this kind of broad go the "high risk, high reward approach". If it blows up, fuck her, you'll have a good laugh, if it works you're banging guaranteed.
Bulba 1y ago
Ask if she wants to “Netflix and chill” at night. Ask her to come to your place, don’t get out of your way to meet her.
Saying something along the lines of “I want to fuck you” can work very well if you say it in person while looking her straight in the eyes. However if you do it over text it will not be effective.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
You're being too kind. She might "get what you mean," but that gives her a means of plausible deniability. You should come out and say it. "I want to fuck you tonight. We can even have dinner afterward if you'd like."
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
fucking next her already
edjohn88 1y ago
Yea if you met online and simply offering a date validates her that much, she is probably not even going to show up if she does agree. Waste of emotional investment.