1.Some time ago I met this girl and I was clear with her that we are just hooking up we are not going into a relationship.
We texted for a few days and met up, had sex. I treated her with respect. After a few hours told her its getting late and i didnt want her to drive late since she came from far away.
I texted her when she reached home and asked her if she reached safely.
Few weeks later I texted her looking for a hookup and she got mad. Told me "I am not something who exists just for sex".
I tried it again few weeks later and again she declined. So I didnt contact her again.
Few days ago I met another girl. We decided to hookup and she will come soon. But she has been texting me everyday which is fine.
After we have had sex is it expected that I text her everyday like a friend?
I dont mind a hookup only relationship or even a friends with benefits frame.
But what texting etiquettes should I follow? a.In a frequent hookup connection
b.In a friends with benefits connection
Is b better than a nowadays?
MyBoyJob 1y ago
Tricky subject. I have honestly started logging chicks I've fucked menstrual cycles, and if I'm just looking to hookup, only target the ones I think are ovulating. Real talk. Watch women become different people depending where they are on that 30 day cycle. But generally speaking, I play it cool, if you blow up on a chick who is on the rag and not DTF, she will remember it 3 weeks later when she is DTF.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Of course not, sweet cheeks. Anyways, I'll see you at my place at 8.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
ok, NEXT
no!
not daily. keep it RANDOM.
Hooktenay 1y ago
But I am still expected to text her when I am not planning a hookup?
I thought when hooking up we just text the person to come over and then they come over. I didnt think I have to maintain a "friendship" over text.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
not if she's accepted regular hookups as a thing.
this woman wanted a relationship, that's the problem
Hooktenay 1y ago
So is it fine if I ignore the current girl till the next hookup ? Iwill ofcourse reply if she texts me but I will only text her first if I want to plan a hookup
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Exactly.
And keep your replies random.... sometimes reply, sometimes too busy, sometimes reply fast, sometimes slow.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Texting is for logistics.
RiggzHatesYou 1y ago
Agree for the most part. Too easy for men to hang themselves texting outside of that.