So as one, you have to advise the best u can, but have to.adhere to a code.
You consult a woman. You TOLd her many RP truths without going into where does it originates from: Put him first, dont lie, be honest, respect, feminine.
If she fails basics (above mentioned) She tells you, she is put trough series of tests and tasks and they get more intense and hard after each fail. To the point she is being given, basically impossible tasks to do and that's because of the her fuckery.
Now she comes to you and insists she still wants fixing it and asks how, but she is in place where doing stuff exposes her to extreme level.
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Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
If I was a therapist, I wouldn't take female clients.
Pfizer 1y ago
I totally get that. This is general consensus ROI of therapist would be better with man. But its more about situation of therapist that took the challenge and shouldn't really call quits. Some therapists would take the challenge or do something they usually do not do.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
You call it "taking on a challenge", I call it "being stupid". Trying to fix women with issues is an unnecessary risk for the male therapist, and also irresponsible towards the female client.
Pfizer 1y ago
Come on you cherry pick. Taking challenge is quite one sided as can be easily linked to saving ho. I have added also doing something not in patteRN imagine working all life with men you will inevitably look to break the pattern. To make sure you remember whats on the other side, even if you sure nothing has changed. But im not bothered to dwell on that.
If you can expand on why is it dangerous and irresponsible ?
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
I didn't understand the first part of what you wrote.
But it's risky, because women with issues are just bad news all around for men - personally and professionally. They fall in love with their therapists all the time, don't deal well with boundaries, and are notorious for all sorts of false accusations.
It's irresponsible, because a female in therapy doesn't need all the clutter, drama and dynamics involved with having a male therapist. She would be better of with a female one, just like a man would be better of with a male one.
Pfizer 1y ago
We generally agree that women cant 'into relationship and do not understand men.
They get emotionally distrupted easier.
I knew a woman , her fem therapist told her that her man treats her like dog. She listened to me and.replaced her with man, after years of being with her. Imagine the damage done in the meantime, but well it paid for insta holidays.
I cant exactly see how would they help eachother.
Team of man and woman would ofc be best and afterhours contact only with same sex.
Not that any man have obligation, but if there is money there will be men.
Have you ever heard about male therapists using office style physical glass barrier to keep physical distance?
If you could copy paste. If you cant understand ,others cant.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
What the fuck did I just read?
Pfizer 1y ago
Bunch of thoughts. Very abstract question.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
ENGLISH, MOTHERFUCKER! DO YOU SPEAK IT?!
Pfizer 1y ago
As a second language yes.
Typo-MAGAshiv 1 1y ago
Ok, I'll ease up on you, but that was very disjointed and hard (impossible, really) to follow.
Maybe edit for clarity?
Pfizer 1y ago
I could see it wasnt clear enough so had corrected. I often edit my entries above 10 words, either for clarity or for extra thoughts.
In my own laguagage I had similar problem. Its somewhat magnified in english.
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
Is this a riddle?
Pfizer 1y ago
It kind of is. Thers's no good or bad answer tho. I'm just curious about input.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
I would never go to a female therapist. I'm a man. I want to talk to a man, not some skank who divorce raped her doctor husband after getting her degree. They call it PSYCHO-therapy for a reason: them hoes be crazy as fuck.
Pfizer 1y ago
Sure. Same here. If I would ever wanted to see woman in man therapy it would be like in perfect relationship,. Man leads she makes observations but does not speak. I would utilize woman skills but speaking is not one of them.
In topic I put the scenario only when man is challanged by woman request and doesnt want to refer her but use whatever approach in given situation (blurry as it is).
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Therapists deal with this all the time. You have to use cognitive behavioural therapy and if the patient doesn't perform then you just keep taking their money for decades. My therapists were actually pretty stoked when I did what they told me and I got results. At some point I had to admit that I didn't need therapy and I was just coming in to have a friend to talk to so we worked on getting me some friends. I can't remember the last time I went to therapy...
Pfizer 1y ago
Great uplifting story.
Considering there is unformal contract, 'if I cant help you I will refer you' that would mean profession is cancerous and poeople getting into it are no better than estate agents or div9rce lawyers.
G8RL from mys story was apparently with her fem therapist for.over 10y, my brother went to fem one and.on the first meeting she told him something like 'just collect yourself'.
Was yours fem of man. And what was outline for looking for friends help?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I've had both women and men but mostly men. It's day and night difference. A man will tell you how to solve your problem, a woman will listen to how you feel about a problem and try to make you feel better.
The outline for making friends is to join hobby groups. Common interests form a natural ice-breaker. I'm already buddying up with a few employees at the gym because they see me there so often. Same with D&D but we're all autistic so it's really awkward. Rocketry, classic car shows, stuff like that.