I'm a college student. Over the past couple of months, I've had a class in a different section of campus. I've been seeing this girl (HB7) while walking to class that I knew from high school through mutual friends. When we see each other, we just wave and smile.
Yesterday, I was walking the same way, and she saw me coming from about a block away (quite a distance), and she took a turn into a deadend road. Obviously, she was trying to avoid me.
I'm thinking a few situations 1) It's kind of weird to see the same acquaintance over and over again and have to say hi to them. 2) She's attracted to me, and she got nervous. 3) She's extremely creeped out by me.
Thoughts?
MrSupreme 3y ago
Actually talk to her,APPROACH and stop thinking you're weirding her out or you'll weird her out for real, terrible mindset that one.Just have something to talk about and let it flow
Positive-Lifeguard80 3y ago
4) She might have been attracted to you, you were a coward to make any move, and now she is on another dick and you're gone.
craftsmanmindset 3y ago
How could I have made a move if she's just walking by me? It's creepy to randomly stop her.
Positive-Lifeguard80 3y ago
When she smiles and waves, you start talking to her and set up a date.
You didn't do that, so she got someone else and is no longer interested. That's it, you got your chance and you blew it. Next.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
In what universe is it creepy to talk to a person? Only way to make it creepy is to act creepy. Fix your mentality. Read the sidebar.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Hit on her anyway and here's why:
1.)this would resolve any weirdness of seeing her over and over and answer the question if she's dtf.
2.) if she's attracted to you then she'll be happy you nutted up
3.) if she's creeped out by you because she thinks you're lower SMV or whatever it acts a huge neg to her to have ugly guys hitting on her and no Chads.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Dumb question, it's 3.
If you're unsure, talk to her and see what happens.
craftsmanmindset 3y ago
What made you say that it is 3?
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You need to stop worrying about any one girl or any one incident