suppose she hasn't texted you all day do you reach out to her or not? or always wait for her is there a trp rule for this?
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Peter_Henderson about a year ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/UncleVasya/comments/vkk3lb/uncle_vaz_advice_for_young_men_things_my_father/
He answers this in his "texting guide":
https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/where-has-mr-vs-guide-to-texting-gone.211125
Which tells you it's mysteriously gone -- but is thankfully backed up:
https://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
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Peter_Henderson about a year ago
From the article I gave you, if it's a ping, then 4 days.
If she hasn't texted you all day, I believe this falls into the "ping" category.
Therefore do nothing for 3 more days (which unless my math is wrong is Saturday).
On Saturday, send her a ping (as described in the article).
Durek_The_Bald about a year ago
No. Sometimes I'll contact her first.
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on what I feel like doing, not on wanting to elicit any particular response from her.
No. Very predictable. Predictable = boring (for both of you).
Main rule is to be on your mission, so that these things flow naturally. But if you need to train yourself, then the 2/3rds rule is the way to go.
Stay busy, maintain a social circle of men, and prioritize the things you find fun and/or interesting. The vast majority of your time and attention should be spent on yourself. If she's living rent free in your head when you're not with her, you don't have enough stuff going on in your life - either you're not on your mission, or you're not having enough fun.
If you live for yourself, and she's just a recreational thing on the side, you don't have to consciously think about stuff like this. You'll genuinely forget to call her, you'll genuinely not have time to meet any time she wants, you'll genuinely leave her on read because something else came up. On the other side of the same coin, you'll be able to give her attention whenever you feel like it, without having to limit yourself, because you're afraid of coming off as too needy, or too much.
Til;dr: Just have stuff to do, stuff you would've done anyways. If you want a "rule", then it's the 2/3rds rule. But the end game is to genuinely not have her (or any woman) as a top priority. Consciously following the rule of 2/3rds becomes predictable too + it's no fun having a girlfriend if you constantly feel the need to calculate stuff like this.
whytehorse2021 about a year ago
The only time I contact my wife is for business(kids, shopping, etc) or sex. I tried being her girlfriend but it really dried her pussy up.
craftsmanmindset about a year ago
Nah this is one of those things you shouldn't follow a certain rule for. You should be natural here.
coolsocks00 about a year ago
There are no rules. Only guidelines. They're there to help in the early stages until you're calibrated enough to go with the flow.