I think intelligences are complimentary. I'm smart, she's dumb. If you're dumb, she should be smart. I used to go for smart chicks and it was awful. They think they're smart and you're dumb. Just imagine non-stop intelligence shit tests.
I dunno, if I want good conversation a woman is the last person I seek out. Just understanding technical details isn't enough for a long lasting relationship or to tip the bar for a relationship.
They both have downsides. It's better to date a woman with above average intelligence but not Smart
If you absolutely have to go with either, dumb will be easier to deal with but less stimulating. Smart will be more fulfilling and stimulating but smart chicks are usually chaotic and have hyper-charged hamsters. Their hamsters operate on "logic" I put logic in scare quotes because their rationale is usually still too subjective to be objective logic.
But smart girls are fucking vicious with it, they will analyze something and shit test you with next-level confrontation whereas as a dumb girl will have an unintelligent incoherent emotional rant when she's upset
You're better off with average (ideally a bit above average intelligence for a LTR) but smart or dumb have downsides
Its gonna take some experience to evaluate Wich one would be better suited to your personality, in my case I think I would prefer a slightly smarter (than most) girl, I wouldn't say smarter than me but definitely easy to have a conversation with
Depends what's right for you. There is no right or wrong answer. She could be dumb but you could have a lot in common which makes it easy for you to get along with her.
I like having a high IQ gf that dosen't care too much about her career. I also have a decent IQ so it's nice to have someone to troubleshoot problems with.
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SeasonedRP 1 2y ago
I don't think it matters as long as she isn't abnormally stupid. Some very smart women can be either nutty or high maintenance.
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
I think intelligences are complimentary. I'm smart, she's dumb. If you're dumb, she should be smart. I used to go for smart chicks and it was awful. They think they're smart and you're dumb. Just imagine non-stop intelligence shit tests.
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craftsmanmindset 2y ago
yeah I agree with this, I love pillow talk.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Name one girl you can have a stimulating convo with... see the problem there?
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
I dunno, if I want good conversation a woman is the last person I seek out. Just understanding technical details isn't enough for a long lasting relationship or to tip the bar for a relationship.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
A post I made one time:
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/276135/is_it_just_me_or_does_slutiness_usually_align_with_a_girl_s
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
They both have downsides. It's better to date a woman with above average intelligence but not Smart
If you absolutely have to go with either, dumb will be easier to deal with but less stimulating. Smart will be more fulfilling and stimulating but smart chicks are usually chaotic and have hyper-charged hamsters. Their hamsters operate on "logic" I put logic in scare quotes because their rationale is usually still too subjective to be objective logic.
But smart girls are fucking vicious with it, they will analyze something and shit test you with next-level confrontation whereas as a dumb girl will have an unintelligent incoherent emotional rant when she's upset
You're better off with average (ideally a bit above average intelligence for a LTR) but smart or dumb have downsides
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Definitely
I don't know how much sexual and or dating experience you have with smart girls but they're fucking crazy after a few pumps/dates
Solipsism and high intelligence are really obnoxious. Like dealing with a child that has better arguments than you half the time, it's miserable
MrSupreme 2y ago
Its gonna take some experience to evaluate Wich one would be better suited to your personality, in my case I think I would prefer a slightly smarter (than most) girl, I wouldn't say smarter than me but definitely easy to have a conversation with
User4566 2y ago
Depends what's right for you. There is no right or wrong answer. She could be dumb but you could have a lot in common which makes it easy for you to get along with her.
craftsmanmindset 2y ago
I like having a high IQ gf that dosen't care too much about her career. I also have a decent IQ so it's nice to have someone to troubleshoot problems with.
Peter_Henderson 2y ago
If your only 2 choices are low or high -- then low (she's more predictable).
If you can choose any number on the IQ spectrum, then I'd say 120 IQ girlfriend is optimal for guys that have a high IQ.