Hey there its me again. So I met up with this girl who said she was busy before. Date was nice spent 2 hours together. Played staring contest and won a meal of sushi. She jokingly said if i made up the second date already and i laughed and said you can think about it for the whole week. she was laughing. Made out in my car for about 20mins and I dropped her to subway which she was living a bit far away.
While she was leaving i said text me when you arrive at your house she said see ya in a weird tone and left. Well was it bad I said such thing. Maybe she thought I see her as my gf already? I am pretty sure she wont text me if I wont. What are your opinions on this when to text her back too keep her warm as plate and arrange the next date quickly and what to text. I am planning on texting tomorrow.
btw most of you guys said to not ask her 2nd time when she said she can be busy.I asked her the other day and she gave an alternate time.Need our veterans advice on this.
Thank you all...
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
If you told her to text you and she didnt, dont text her first. That would be rewarding bad behaviour, and she knows that. If she wants to see you, she will text first. A chick who's not quite sure about you might do this kind of takeaway beta bait where she waits to see if you'll text her first acting needy.
Wait a week or so and keep gaming other girls.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Set up the next date and move on to finding new plates in the meantime. This will make you independent of the outcome.
Big-Dan 1y ago
Agree with coolsocks. Don't text her if she doesn't text you first. On Thursday or so you can text her about setting up another date
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
This possibly came across as insincere and maybe she doubted that you actually care about her safe arrival to her home.
Disclaimer: I'm not a mind reader and women are complicated as fuck.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Nothing wrong with "let me know you get home safe, girl"
Do not arrange the next date quickly!
Her coming back with an alternate time is fine