Matched on an app messaged 4-5 times got her insta Invited her outside spefitic time and date for 2 days later.Said she can be busy and cant give promise.said text me tomorrow wheter you are available or not and said i have to wake up early tomorrow and said gn.This was yesterday
So what should i do today i didnt text her yet.When to text her or should i not and wait.I feel like i should push a bit.whats your advice ?
User4566 1y ago
The best way to eliminate competition is to be present. By that, I mean if you see a girl and you go talk to her in person AND have a good interaction, the chances of her going out with you and not flaking increase a. Metric. Fuck. Ton.
Think of it: online you may be good-looking and perfectly fine, but she's talking to a guy who has more cash/friends/cooler life/better looks, etc.
If you were bombarded by hot chicks online, wouldn't you be one picky mother fucker? I would. I don't have all the time in the world to go on dates!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Just move on.
If she wants to see you she'll reschedule, this is the shitty part about dating, women will give dumb flakey shit like this and make you chase.
Don't chase, just move on, if she hits you up sweet
jonejona202 1y ago
Well she was good with the text and day have not finished yet.Will it be bad if i text something like “coming ?” At evening.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Nah
She's making it too hard already. If she texts you maybe pursue slightly but you tried already
I don't waste time with this stuff, neither should you. It shouldn't be this hard to meet with a tinder chick, if she's making it hard move on
Hanscheezburger 1y ago
Next move? Text nothing. Go and do your own thing until then. Text her a few hours before to see if she's still going, that's it.
Out of a few dozens of matches on OLD you would actually meet just a few in real life, and even fewer that you will fuck and enjoy it.
Accept that most of them can and will flake, approach accordingly - make backup plans, don't get overly invested. Even better if you can set up multiple dates on the same night and if your favorite match comes, you flake on the others
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
I agree with Vermillion. If you matched on a dating app -- then she has hundreds or maybe thousands of other men competing with you for her time.
If she was really interested in a date with you, you'd see it with your own eyes by witnessing her eagerness to schedule a date with you. The truth is any woman who goes on a dating app immediately learns that hundreds of men want to date her. How could a woman not let that "fact" affect her sense of self-worth?
Unless you are in the top 2% of men, online dating apps are a horrible place to meet women and schedule dates with them.
Nelsoa 1y ago
Asking red pillers suggestions for this kind of issue is not wise. If you really want her, go ask some successful simps or alphas for advice. If you don’t like her, stop wasting her time
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
Soft next. Spend time on other applicants with higher interest.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
She is creating an option date: an optional date for her, if nothing better comes along. It's a mark of deep respect.
NEXT.