To elaborate and expand on the title - I recently realised that my social skills are pretty good with people that the initial ice is broken with, or ones that reciprocate the energy (as expect, its a lot easier then), but I barely use dating apps, and I've been to the clubs maybe 5-10 times, which is that this post is mostly about - I keep seeing/hearing people just being bold as fuck with their approaches at the club, but I'm uncertain how to go about it myself, especially in the U.K., and I'd want to pick up on some things from videos, as food for thought or to consider when I go out clubbing myself.
Any advice?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
clubs need boldness because you have to fucking shout to be heard.
they're also awful for picking up women: women go there for attention.
bars will serve you better
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
Is this true for younger guys as well or does this advice only apply to older guys?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
applies to younger guys too.... clubs fucking suck...... if you know better, prove me wrong :)
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
I wish I could be young enough to prove you wrong but I'm old enough to be your father or maybe even your grandfather... >_<
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You'd love the old infield videos of RSD Julien. That guy was pretty wild. But i think they're mostly taken down and RSD went to shit long, long ago.
Check out Vadim's infield videos on his YT channel Honest Signalz.
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
I really liked Julien also. He's very smart and has good social skills/friendly.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Sucks he crashed and burned during the CNN debacle. He didnt have the stomach for and belief in what he was doing and succumbed to the BP narrative. Probably coked up a lot so im not surprised.
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
I vaguely remember him being interviewed by Anderson Cooper -- wasn't it?
I thought he did spectacularly well and gave a 10/10 performance.
Are one of us in "make-believe-land" right now?
Edit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPT5dFHK3wo
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
You cant be serious saying you think he did well there. He apologises for everything that's controversial in Clown World and says he's extremely sorry and the things he's been doing is wrong.
Instead he could have reframed all of this critique without apologising, more in line with how Tate handles media shit storms.
This interview ruined him.
Peter_Henderson 1y ago
Your criticism is valid only if you judge Julien's performance during that interview based on your own criteria.
Just curious -- what do you think Julien's goals were for the interview prior to the interview?
Do you think he just blindly agreed to the interview and had no plan or goals to be achieved while being interviewed on live television?
whytehorse2021 1y ago
You can't learn it from watching videos. You have to study a technique and then apply it according to your unique set of circumstances. Start with London day game by Tom Torero. Night club game is probably the hardest. You're dealing with bitch shields, attention/validation seekers, high competition, loud music, etc. Bar game is just about getting numbers and leaving.