My goal is different from some guys here. I ultimately want a relationship with a plain and homely girl, have children and someone to take care of me when I get old. After learning about TRP, I realized it's going to be much harder than I thought. Doesn't mean it's impossible, right?

The problem is I just can't seem to accept women's hypergamous nature and I get absolutely disgusted seeing promiscuous behavior and hypergamy in action.

I see a girl posting thristtraps? Fucking slut, I thought.

I see a girl flirting with multiple men? Whore.

I see a girl lying to my face? What a piece of shit.

The thing is: How can I be mad at them if it's their nature? I feel like the reason I get so angry is because they don't live up to my expectations. But I have always been taught that honor and honesty are basic human decency. And when girls lie so much and advertise their body to public, they have no class. Worse, they're less than human because they don't have any sense of honor.

I've turned plates away after I saw they liked every single picture out of a guy's instagram, or just constantly talking to some other guy. Now I know I should have no right to do that, they're plates, we're nothing to each other. But I can't help it.

I'm just sick of getting to know somebody, having a great time, then find out I'm another one of their options and they have been lying to me straightfaced. I don't want to hate them, but the more I found out about their nature, the more I dislike them.

I don't want to turn into some woman hater, I want to find genuine female connection, based on trust, honor and responsiblity. But how can I do that when the majority I've met have no honor at all? I've met some girls who are really good: no red flag, conservative family, good upbringing, low N-count, honest etc... But due to circumstances we just couldn't be with each other. Having a taste of that just makes me feel so much worse being surrounded by these new plates.

Even though I use the term plate - I don't apply the concept like most guys here. I still have feelings for them, I'm just forcing them to go through a hard vetting process first before any LTR. And I can't seem to accept the fact that they will be seeing other people. Me being judgmental also seems to be turning some girls away, understandably. But like I said, I can't help it. There was a time when promiscuous women would be shunned by the whole village, it's the same everywhere around the world. Now I just have to accept that all women are going to be sluts and there's nothing you can do about it?

Man, that's fucking terrible