So I made a post the other day about a girl and so far it's going even better. Actually made some progress and we are definitely a thing but I can't help but get anxious that I said the wrong thing this one time or random stuff like that. I keep thinking she'll just stop liking me, haven't even been talking for very long so I shouldn't be this invested, how can I get rid of this anxiety?
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User4566 3y ago
This is red-pill 101, but basically, you should always be ready for a girl to leave you. It should not bother you. You must know that there are 4 billion women on this planet and if this one wants to leave you/cheat on you/ whatever than you must be perfectly okay with this because you should be confident in your ability to find a new one.
I believe it's called an abundance mindset. You need to stop putting her on a pedestal and take her as is. If things to south, let it. Who says it's your fault, anyway? Do you really want to be in a relationship where you're scared all the time of what's the "right thing to say or do" all the time? Sounds mentally exhausting!! So if I were you, I'd relax and simply let things play out naturally and try not to make everything perfect because that's an incredibly high standard to put on yourself and her.
gpman290 3y ago
Thanks so much, I'll keep reminding myself of this.
Durek_The_Bald 3y ago
"She's not yours, it's just your turn". Doesn't matter if you put a ring on it, own a house, or have kids together. Learn it, experience it, and be ok with it. There's always better options for you anyways. No girl in your life is ever going to be peak catch.
And unless you've gotten yourself into a legal/financial conondrum (like marriage/kids in USA, Canada, Australia or UK), nothing really "happens" just because some girl decides to ditch you. It's not like you wake up with bowel cancer tomorrow because some female dumped you today.