Recently I've been journaling and meditating since my break up with my ex. I have come to the realization that I should be nicer to the people around me and those important to me. As such, I am very confused. Do I give my ex a birthday gift or not? I feel some resentment still about the break up and I really don't want to get it back with her but I don't want to pretend that she is not important to me. You see I want to give gifts to people I am not really close with but to my own ex, whom I shared years of my life with, I won't? That seems weird to me. What do you think I should do? Her birthday is tomorrow.
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MidgetSpinner 3y ago
The answer you're looking for is no.
rambo123 3y ago
Thank you!
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rambo123 3y ago
yea, you’re actually right. I’m a bitch hahahah
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rambo123 3y ago
Yes, I will not, thank you!
fumbor Should i (x1) 3y ago
Helllll nooooo
rambo123 3y ago
Thank you!!!
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
No.
The literal only exception I'd ever approve of is if you two broke it off mutually for reasons outside of both of your control, you two profoundly changef each other's livesand are purely just friends and you're giving a gift just because
Which let's be real, is a .001% chance of being your actual situation
rambo123 3y ago
Yea, it was not mutually exclusive. I was dumped because I got complacent in the relationship. I became a bitch and apparently, I still am. Thank you for communicating some sense into me.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
It's all good man no problem. Relationship dumps are the hardest ego hits on the face of the earth
You're human, don't forget that you're human, have some mercy on yourself for wanting to do that, but also yeah, just let her go
dongking 3y ago
Sounds like you're hamstering and just want a good reason to get in touch with her.
So that's a big no.
rambo123 3y ago
Yes, you are right. Thank you
SeasonedRP 2 3y ago
No.
rambo123 3y ago
Yes, thank you!
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
No, she's an ex for a reason, move on.
rambo123 3y ago
Yes, and that reason is I was dumped. Thank you! I was just being a bitch. I should be more focused on my tasks so that I stop thinking about nonsensical things.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Why don't you give yourself a gift? The more you invest in yourself, the more attractive you'll become to women, including her.
rambo123 3y ago
That sounds like a good idea actually. Haha, thanks! I’ll just give myself a gift and stop thinking about this nonsense
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Be sure to post it to the gossip machine(social media) so she knows. "Look at this new X I got myself"
No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
Fuck that. She gave up that privilege when she became your ex. Stop being a simp.
rambo123 3y ago
Yes, you are right and I also know this. But why tf am I such a bitch? thank you for communicating some sense into me
No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
You're not being a bitch, you're being a simp.
Simping is a bad habit. Like all bad habits, you have to break them. You can't "ease" out of a bad habit. You have to go cold turkey. So just stop.
MrSupreme 3y ago
Bandwagon says no, so no but after some thinking I have to say: No
rambo123 3y ago
Hahaha, thanks! I will go with the bandwagon too because I am just being a bitch. Thank you!