I've had no romantic experience with girls in my entire life. I finished an accutane course recently and got a tan, totally randomly a hot chick in my year group started crushing on me, she's dropped hints and it's going ok.
I'm not that funny, even with my guy friends. I feel like I will bore her the more she gets to know me but I really don't want that. How can I prevent that?
We sat and had a chat today and I think I was freezing up a bit and came off as too nervous, sometimes I would mumble something and have to repeat myself.
ManosphereConcierge 3y ago
In martial arts, there is a saying, "Don't practice until you get it right. Practice until you can't get it wrong." The point being, the way to NOT fuck up, is to FUCK up sooooooo much that you become in expert in what not to do.
In other words, get out their on the field/matt/mound/whatever and 1)do your best 2)learn from the experience 3)repeat ad infinitum.
"Fucking up" is the world's greatest teacher!!!
FEAR of "fucking up" keeps us from ever even TRYING step#1.
Sooooo, get out there....and FUCK UP!!!!!
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kv2_0833 3y ago
The hottest girl I've been with, we hung out a shit ton of times over the course of 2 months and I think we only had one genuine conversation, the rest was just banter, or talk regarding something we were doing together. Also the way to not be boring is to lead an interesting life, not for girls, but don't you want to for yourself anyway?
Todd_From_BrBa 3y ago
Women are hypergamous. Your post might be true but it doesn't make sense to me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M8aT6uE3QFs
What does "crushing on you" mean? What did she do or say to make you believe she was crushing on you?
gpman290 3y ago
She started catching the bus with me, telling me that after dumping her boyfriend she doesn't have a ball date, talking about it with her friends just in earshot. I asked her out, her friends told me she was gonna ask me even if I didn't. I told her not to come watch my game because it'd be shit but she came anyway, she arrived at the start and left when it finished without watching any other guys games.
Todd_From_BrBa 3y ago
How does you telling me what her friends said help me determine if she answered "yes" or "no" when you asked her out?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Extrasensory_perception
The wikipedia theory on ESP has been debunked many times. Am I supposed to read your mind that she said "yes" or am I supposed to read your mind that she said "no"?
Wouldn't you think it's useful information for me to have when I'm calling into question whether she is "crushing" on you and my attempt at trying to figure out what that word means to you and what evidence you have to support and/or validate your beliefs?
My time is 10x more valuable than yours, so stop wasting it, please.
gpman290 3y ago
Haha my apologies she said yes. Also by crushing I meant she had a crush on me.
Todd_From_BrBa 3y ago
No worries, it's all good. I don't have anything relevant/insightful to add today for your thread but just felt a desire to share one of my favorite comedy clips of all time!
qfqads 3y ago
You will not get laid any time soon. Stop thinking about girls and focus solely on school.
MrSupreme 3y ago
That's terrible advice, he's gotta get laid to see what all the hype is about,specially at that age (I think he's about 20)