Have we evolved to bond to women when staying in some form of relationship.
On surface level I know/assume that answer is yes and.it appears in posts on TRP.
I was just going to scratch it a bit more than surface but after entering phrase into G search I literally got slight gag like.when you try to date a whore and convice yourself its a good girl.
I appreciate any written input or scientific/medical sources on subject.
Thanks.
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Pfizer 3y ago
Thanks for q. Wasnt specific enough.
Have we evolved to bond to women when staying in some form of relationship.
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having multiple plates would be a way to MITIGATE that by cheating on brain
Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago
(Have we evolved to bond to women when staying in some form of relationship)
it's true that the longer you spend time with a person, you get familiar with them,etc. It's why, if an LTR is not your goal or you don't see the girls as a LTR, you make sure you don't spend much time with them and keep reminding yourself, she's a plate, she's only for fun.
If the girl has been a hoe, you remind yourself, it's just my turn, this is just for fun. I"m not special and she does this and more for many other guys. It's just for fun.
Of course, we all have different views on what defines her as a hoe or not. That's each owns view of course. But, if you have defined her as one, that's all the matters for you.
If her being a hoe is the only thing that's a flag , look for other things, be picky about it. Remember, her love bombing you, being a hoe that she is, will make you blind to a lot of issues that you won't normally pick up on until later, until "after" you have attachment to her. Well, that's the plan dude, that's why they do it.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yes. I did the research and when we mate our oxytocin and vasopressin levels change to make us mate guard, become territorial, and then after the baby arrives we become paternal and our testosterone goes down. Basically we're designed to get oneitis and then become beta providers.
Many women decided it would be in their best interest to exploit this by becoming their own providers, get pregnant by the alphas, and then cuck a man for his resources and parenting. Enter red pill and DNA testing and the tables turn. Soon it will be 50% of women age 24-45 that are single and childless. Their DNA will die off. The other half will either be traditional housewives or single mothers. The offspring of the single mothers will be severely disadvantaged compared to two-parent households.
So we'll have to listen to these women complain for the next 80 years, deal with their bratty kids messing with our nice kids, and a large welfare state and prison system. Or we can just go our own way and move to where people treat us best.
Pfizer 3y ago
Nice
I have a starting point
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fevo.2018.00202/full
whytehorse2021 3y ago
It's trippy stuff. I put a chart from cutting edge research in my book which shows how safety and security interact with the hormones to form lifelong-brain changes. Vasopressin will give you excellent memory. It is normally released when in danger so your brain never forgets the saber toothed tiger that tried to eat you. If you have equal amounts of oxytocin and vasopressin released but in high amounts(common when mating) your brain never forgets her and you associate safety and security with her. It gets freaky when you look at situations like rape where you have high vasopressin and a little oxytocin and associate sex with danger. Or you could go the other way where you have high safety and pleasure and don't remember it(prostitute).
Pfizer 3y ago
Thtas well put essence. It tickles my mushy part.
I guess remedy is only to overwrite. You didn't come across anything that acTS as selective eraser?
Thanks
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Intranasal oxytocin can help. 2 snorts right before orgasm with new chick will create a newer and stronger imprint than the old one. https://www.walmart.com/ip/OxyPure-Oxytocin-Spray-12IU/378166215?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=101020892&adid=22222222227000000000&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=c&wl3=42423897272&wl4=pla-51320962143&wl5=9033799&wl6=&wl7=&wl8=&wl9=pla&wl10=223008372&wl11=online&wl12=378166215_101020892&veh=sem&gclid=Cj0KCQjw--2aBhD5ARIsALiRlwAS8ebYSEfwPD3GVpUQRc402XBVrjvl0Z1k6guTlNgqQxmCm4gdE8YaAkprEALw_wcB
Just be careful because it can make you trust the wrong people.
Pfizer 3y ago
I need to buy so called research CHemicals to get it. But always avail, jUST concentration and other parameters are always in ques5ion.
I think I need more vasopressin, not that great memory as I want.
I read oxy spray needs 60 minutes?
BTW. Seems like dosing oxy to sexual victim might bond the subject to X.
Other thing: if bond is created with X any intercourse attempt by other XX might now end in agression.
Appropriate dose would be required.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I can't take vasopressin because it raises blood pressure. The oxytocin I linked is dosed at 12 IU per spray. I take 2 sprays(1 in each nostril) just like in the research studies. It kicks in very fast. It travels up the vagus nerve into the brain. This stuff is over the counter. Keep it away from pregnant women, it induces labor.