Is there anyone here who can’t dance or who don’t feel like to dance even when you are at the club?
I see most woman are attracted to a guy who can dance or a guy who’s having fun at the club even tho he looks like a clown(like he really don’t know how to dance but he still willing to it)
But i’m not that type of guy don’t get me wrong i really enjoy go to club or bar especially with a friends but dancing is not my thing. I’m a laid back guy Is that really a turn off or negative points to a girl?
truthdontbehidden 3y ago
For me it helped going out with adhd guys and we would just spam stupid dance moves all night. Even if no real dancing was done, the inner resistance to dance was removed and just casually vibing on the dance floor is no hard for me anymore.
unplugged69 3y ago
Take dance lessons, you're just not naturally inclined but you can still learn. Learn different types and you'll improve overall.
Dancing was always a hard one for me as well but I've worked on it and I'm above average which is good enough. We all have strengths and weaknesses so dont worry if some guy is a better dancer as long as you have other things to offer
MrSupreme 3y ago
Try not caring about dancing at all, don't take it as seriously as you'd take any other endeavour and you will just feel the flow of the music and you'll find your place in it
whytehorse2021 3y ago
I hate dancing. I learned it is some kind of neurotypical retardation that most people experience when their brains automatically get emotional inducement from music. Maybe that's why women love it and men begrudgingly do it to get women.