So i met a girl on a night out, got her number and organised a date with her. Date went really well, both pretty drunk and she asked me to go back to hers. I’ve just come out of a LTR and was drunk and kinda had problems keeping it up so the sex was subpar at best. We met up a few days later for a coffee. I guess my question is could I have blown my chances of plating this girl because the issue in the bedroom?
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Nah, you haven't blown it. You were just drunk. Next time don't drink so much, if any at all. Two night stands are the bomb, especially when the second time around you're both sober.
ajules97 1y ago
thanks man. will give it a shot. all a learning curve as i’m still young haha
Hanscheezburger 1y ago
If it's a one night stand then you shouldn't worry too much about that. Just move on to someone else.
It does leave a bad impression and some girls might ghost you afterwards, but it is what it is. Some girls will come back if you gave her a good time regardless and the truth is not many men are better.
ajules97 1y ago
thanks for the advice bro. yeah was just confused as she wanted to meet up despite the subpar sex. i’ll have to charge it to the game
Hanscheezburger 1y ago
It happens to most of us. It's good to find out what triggers the limp dick so you can plan your way around it. Too much alcohol or anxiety can do it for me.
When it happened to me, I left that girl be for a week or so, then hit her up with some fun activities I want her to join. If she doesn't reciprocate, then I just move on. I fucked her again about a month after but it's sub-par. Probably my body knows it's not a good fit
ajules97 1y ago
yeah think the alcohol and general anxiety was the problem. will have to see how it plays out next time
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yah you fucked up your sex with alcohol. Maybe you're just so insecure that you need to drink in order to bed a woman. If not there's something wrong with the woman. I had a chick naked and spread open and couldn't for the life of me get hard. No alcohol. My body just refused. She was hot and I wanted to fuck her. It was very embarrassing.
ajules97 1y ago
yeah bro i think it just happens sometimes. this girl was super hot, the more i thought about keeping it up the worse it got haha
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I think you can sleep it off. Just snuggle and sleep and then morning wood takes care of it.