Met a chick last night and had sex at her place for an hour (she's 37, I'm 32). She came, I didn't but we had a good time. We talked for a bit then I went home.
Should I text her something simple today if I want a FWB/plate? Like "Had a good time last night, let's do that again sometime." Or wait for her to text me?
We're both traveling & working online and I'll be leaving this country in 2-4 weeks, she's staying for longer. There's a good chance I'll see her again soon because we're part of the same digital nomad group.
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unplugged69 3y ago
Wait what? You didn't cum? with some 37 year old post wall roastie and now you want to text her to say it was great?
In general once you fuck a woman for the first time the power is now in your hands because most are afraid of being ghosted so you need to act more cool and aloof and let them initiate a convo and start chasing you.
But why this 37 year old? Go get yourself an 18-25 plate and you'll see what a difference age makes
thespectator Should i (x1) 3y ago
Thanks, that makes sense. She made it easy and is my first lay after an LTR. Younger girls are the goal but gotta start somewhere, I have little casual sex experience.
Edit: she messaged me
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Nice dude.
In the future just say some bullshit like "stay in touch with me" before you/her leaves
It's not exactly telling her you'll even see her again. It's vague enough to make them still wonder what you mean but direct enough to say you're not ghosting
I find that's a good line
unplugged69 3y ago
Next time she better spend all night trying to please you or never call her again. Protip when you have sex with women just do what YOU are into, focus on YOUR pleasure not hers.
Most of the time that's what they want anyway, they get their social cues from men. For example if you suddenly get upset she'll be upset, or if you're having a great time and look like you're having fun she'll also feel like she's having fun.
trpislife 3y ago
Contrary to popular opinion, I'll always text a girl after the hook up although it's purely to protect myself from allegations.
If I want to see her again, I'll say something like I had fun/ something we discussed/ something kinky/ sexy or fun.
But if not, I just say I had a good time (even if it's a lie) and text me when you make it home safe (even though idgaf).