I'm 26 in an LTR with a 30 year old. She used to be fwb with a 55 year old dude (60 now) when she was 25.

Apparently he was really special to her in a low-time in her life or some shit. I found some of their texts but she deleted the rest before I could read them all. Sorta gross. How can I move forward with this? I want to tell her how gross I think it is, but at the same time, she literally has done nothing wrong to me except hide from me that he existed.

I think i'm just being a jealous beta - but I also no longer see this otherwise great girl as anything more than an LTR knowing she gave her best years to a guy older than my dad lol.