How can I feel good with emotional investment while making sure that these AWALT hoes won't fuck me up? I mean, there were times I loved some women emotionally and it was a good feeling - I have to accept. Thinking that someone is there for you makes you feel alive BUT we know AWALT and I've proved that AWALT with my life itself and that's when I thought "Well, if I invest emotionally into these women, when we have to break up due to one reason or another, I'll feel so sad". Now that I've women to have fun with, and I am not emotionally invested but sometimes, I feel like this is a game and like its boring and it doesn't feel good. I don't know if anyone can understand this or have been through this.
I am wondering if I should really emotionally invest into one girl but to at least 3 girls. According to evolution, men especially are polygamist so I am wondering if this would work. I can't really emotionally invest in one girl again.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Thats relatable. We know there is no such thing as unconditional love. There never was, only in movies. So we are left with conditional, realistic love. Emotional bonding with boundaries.
You screen and vet for girls who are worth bonding with. Further, you set personal boundaries. Then there is the understanding of AWALT. So dont love them like a child loves its mother, love them like a man should love a woman.
Dont try to insulate yourself completely from the risk of emotional pain. By definition, once you are in a LTR (open or otherwise) you are emotionally invested. Allow yourself to be hurt if things dont work out, but dont dwell. Know that it only leads to new opportunities, and as a red pilled guy you have all the tools you need to be better off.
rambo123 1y ago
Please don't invest on any of the girls. Don't think too much, just enjoy them while they're there.
Karenzza 1y ago
Can you cum at all times with those you're least invetsed?
I do not doubt that you can have fun with multiple pussies and fuck them good (I did), but with my one plate I cant come regularly anymore, despite her being not bad and having no problem for over 6m. I can see several possibilities:
whytehorse2021 1y ago
It is a game and it's stupid. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. I was so shocked when I met my wife. No games, no shit tests, and she was so well behaved I haven't had to ask her to leave in 17 years. I only had to go through about 10,000 women to find her.
Basically you're just fucking hoes during their hoe phase. If you want something serious you need to find a housewife. I still fuck hoes but there's no emotional connection.
BDATA 1y ago
Are their housewives? Damn, I'd be interested to find one.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Just start asking women "Hey, you wanna run away together, get married, and have a bunch of kids?". That's how I found my wife 18 years ago.