So as far as I know the date I went to 3-4 days ago. Went very well. She seemed happy too. And i am like a few notched above her in looks. She's also older (33yrs). We like each other's company so much that after drinks she asked me to take her to any nice bakery so she could buy me coffee and something sweet. We were together until 12:30 am and then i dropped her.
Since then she hasn't texted me once. Next day i commented on something she said the night before and she replied. We exchanged 2-3 texts and since then again 3 days have passed.
Before we went out she once didn't text me for a whole week. I had to break the ice. Although i find her ok (no wedding bells). She was at best- decent, I'd obviously love to fuck her.
What is my move here? Should I keep reaching out or follow my instinct and let this one go/leave it to god's?
whytehorse2021 about a year ago
You're the man. Set up a second date. At your place.
Vermillion-Rx Admin about a year ago
I think it's because you didn't smash. She traveled far to see you, even hooked a hotel (she planned to stay overnight man) and you didn't smash. Why else would she have made such a long journey (investment)
I think your lack of action did you in with her, she is probably thinking you are a time waste
Men are not the only people that move on if the other person doesn't put out. What you got realize is a lot of modern women want to get laid and you didn't give it to her
MrSupreme about a year ago
Some chicks won't take the first step at all, even if you had a great date, even if you've been dating for a year, they just freeze until you make the move