Don't compare yourself to Nirmal people.also if you feel left out temind itself nature is doing its job. Alot of these guys upset with women don't unstandard that natural selection weeds out the impure. I realize it's not my fault not having a social circle or a real career and that I was destined not too from.birth. I don't get upset over rlife being unfair as that wouldn't serve me. Remember to meditate and learn to accept and do not resist. Accept the fact nature has weeded you out and take measures either through eastern philosophy or modern religion to accept it. So basically to sum it up learn to be okay with isolation if you have mental disorders and accept it.