So after cutting things off with my last LTR I was wondering to save myself some time in the future. Are these red flags that are non negotiable no matter the other perceived qualities
Unnatural hair colour - they say it’s cos of trauma and I’m inclined to agree. Rape/sexual assault victim - women want to make themselves victims at the best of times but anyone that gets raped probably can’t get over it ( men included). It just happens to be women are weaker so more likely to be raped. You’ll have to deal with issues that have nothing with you. Feminist - staunch at that. Think they know everything have ridiculous ideals. You’re hardly too find a chick who isn’t a feminist these days but there are ones that have common sense like knowing there’s no such thing as fatphobic/body positivity. Older chicks- especially when you reach the upper echelons like 30 because they know everything have been damaged by other men and won’t change or want to from experience.
Any more for me in the future ?
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OPPTRP 3y ago
nice what point does the over 30 thing stop as i am 30 myself? social media whore as in on social media and addicted or just posting provocative pictures?
also male friends
whytehorse2021 3y ago
It's more like 28. You shouldn't even consider any single women over age 28 unless it's just a pump and dump. That's basically a woman who spent more than a decade unsuccessfully finding a man, for whatever reasons. Social media whores are women who advertise their sexual availability online.
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RememberingAlpha 3y ago
I'd also add a few more complex ones:
History of entitled behavior: Brags about vacations she's been taken on, or life opportunities afforded for being a hot girl. Ex: "My friends and I went out on this guys boat / lake house". Things that establish a precedent of habitually using men as a resources. Indicative of a career branch swinger.
Extreme focus on her "boundaries" and that sort of rhetoric: women who are obsessed with everyone understanding their boundaries are really saying they're obsessed with you understanding how to cater to the emotions. This usually is a function of needing an external validation of their hamstering (old RP term. look it up). Typically a failure to "respect their boundaries" will shatter their ill-conceived perception of "feels before reals" reality.
OPPTRP 3y ago
Yep ex was all w boundaries. Shut up bitch
No-Stress-Cat 1 3y ago
Single Mom. Stay the fuck away from single moms. You have been warned.
Karenzza 3y ago
Get first few basic ones and actually stick to them (talking tp mys3of)