Good evening ,
How do you really make yourself your mental point of origin? It feels like I do everything in self-improvement to be attractive to girls.
like going to gym, or learning game.
Secondly, I have learned theory quite well through reading side bar, and tomassi. But I need recommendations for learning game.
Thanks.
Boosted_Arrow 3y ago
I think about it like that:
Yes I go to the gym and do all that stuff to get girls. But I get girls for myself. I think having girls is a part of my life-satisfaction, so ultimately I do all those things for me in the end.
You are in your MPoO if you think about yourself first when you're given a decision. (That's what Rollo says)
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Put yourself first. Only invest in yourself. Once you do that, the women magically appear.
MrSupreme 3y ago
Being fit and working out is good for health,makes you feel good and as collateral it makes you attractive to girls, if you do it for the health benefits both psychological and physical you're having yourself as a mental point of origin, that's how I understand it anyways
qstone 3y ago
I understand what you mean. Gotta question my underlying whys.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You are motivated by pussy.
No shame in that...... I am too. A chunk of what I do is simply to be attractive to women.
Food doesn't jump on my plate, I work to get money toeat.
Women don't jump on my dick if I'm fat. I work on my body in a way that women find attractive.
Basically if this motivates you then fine, but try to find other motivations too. If you were starving you'd be motivated to eat. You're horny so you're motivated to get girls. When you're fuck and full you'll discover what/if your underlying motives are.
What happens when you talk to girls? The answer to this question tells you the next step to take.
qstone 3y ago
My other motivation for going to gym is validate myself through my work and progress. So I am trying to self-validate. And for the last question, I got the idea. Thanks
qstone 3y ago
What do you mean by "When you're fuck and full you'll discover what/if your underlying motives are." ?
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
When you have as much female company as you want in life, along with the means to have a comfortable lifestyle, then your other desires will be clearer to you.
I would say beware of things that hijack your dopamine reward system, and try new things often to find something that interests you.