Had a situation that started sometime last week; LTR fell sick and was calling me for comfort but I was out clubbing. So I call her the next day and she had an attitude saying I was not there when she needed me and how she had to cry herself to sleep. Before I could iron that out, I got into legal/financial problems during which I broke frame while drunk. After this I got really cold and didn’t talk to her much. I went back partying for a week and texted her today to confirm if she got her period. She said she got it on Wednesday and we did some small talk during which she said it’s hard for her to admit she misses me because “we’re really not okay”. I noticed that she had uploaded a pic of a can soda somewhere outside on her WhatsApp story. A couple of hours later she uploads a video of a live concert. I did a little digging and found it was actually happening at her school. So she either went without informing me or is using someone else’s video to get a reaction out of me. Should I raise this issue since she’s always supposed to tell me before going somewhere or should I play it cool?
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Kabiier_0308 3y ago
I mean you went clubbing too without informing her lol. Let's be real here....she did this coz she didn't like the fact that you went to clubbing and weren't there for her.
Let this situation pass..... don't get too worked up.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
She is behaving like she is entitled to your (beta) attention.
If it's at her school it doesn't sound like a big deal or something planned.
Your relationship has bigger problems.
muslimgirlredpill 3y ago
It sounds like both of you are immature as hell. Neither one of you should be going out without each other. You shouldn't be clubbing without her, it just gives her a reason to go out on "girls/cheaters" vaca, nights out etc
w4iks 3y ago
I can’t have my girl live the kind of life that I do. I’m out clubbing every other night and she agrees she shouldn’t make a habit of clubbing alone or keeping questionable company.
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w4iks 3y ago
I figured they were trolling or something. My girl has no problem with me being out every night or me stopping her from living that kind of lifestyle.
financehardo420 3y ago
Lol this only applies if you’re a cuck
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Dude, look at the username. I think it's a chick.
financehardo420 3y ago
I saw that and was like wtf is a chick on here for. Someone must’ve been alpha widowed hard
muslimgirlredpill 3y ago
no I wasn't
financehardo420 3y ago
Go to womens redpill this is for the bois only
muslimgirlredpill 3y ago
those women are not red pill. They say as much. They banned me from red pill women forums for conservative views and the moderator replied saying i have "no right to give advice to western women".
Those women are trash
financehardo420 3y ago
Fair but I don’t think you’re qualified to give men advice on being men lol
whytehorse2021 3y ago
She gave the correct response under Islam. Unfortunately the OP isn't under Islam and neither are the women. Oh so this one time... in Indonesia... this bar where us foreign guys would go to find local hoes... it got raided by the police and shut down for allowing men and women to fraternize and get drunk and fuck. Also my co-worker got kicked out of his rental house because he was living with his hoe and wasn't married.
financehardo420 3y ago
Jesus It’s illegal to fuck there? Sus
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yes. Only married people are allowed to kiss, live together, etc. Whenever my wife and I would get a room at a hotel they'd check to see if we're married first. She'd just hold up her ring and they'd rent to us. When we went to her home town, engaged and with a wedding set, we had to be careful about being seen together. We even had to sleep in separate rooms at her parent's house until after the wedding. It was all just a show though because we already fucked. Women make rules for betas and break rules for alphas. My wife always dreamed about getting with a tall, white, American guy with blue eyes. I always dreamed about getting with an exotic, fit, friendly, feminine, submissive Asian chick with a tight box.
It sounds kinda weird to non-Muslims but it has worked very well. Islam is the last holdout against feminism. Like 90% of the religion is designed to keep women from being hoes, single mothers, etc. They still do it but there are severe consequences since there is no welfare state.
financehardo420 3y ago
That sounds worse than aids bro fuck that noise lol
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yeah it sucks for alphas. Great for betas and women.
financehardo420 3y ago
I fucking bet lol
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Dont expect to have a good LTR when you're unfit to manage it.
w4iks 3y ago
I know I haven’t been handling the reigns that well in the recent past but I would like to think I’ve been doing pretty well for most of the ltr.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
And that's how you lose frame. Think of it like a ship. You're the captain and she's the first mate. You're just steering the ship all over the place and going nowhere. Of course she's going jump to another ship.
desbryant 3y ago
Ideally where does a girl want to be steered?
For example I ran pretty flawless game with my ex. Never jealous, always on my mission, did some bdsm, we traveled, I built her up, she benefited my life, was an asset.
But Im not sure if i was ever "steering" towards a certain destination. I just kept things smoothly and that seemed fine. Not sure if I fucked up somewhere along the way, but Im the one who broke things off eventually.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
You have women as your mental point of origin. You need to have yourself as your mental point of origin. Women want to be steered/led by the man and the man has to be on his purpose of increasing his value. Steer yourself towards more money+muscle+game+frame. It seems selfish but that's what women are attracted to. Never invest in a woman, always invest in yourself... otherwise they leave.
w4iks 3y ago
Yeah I know I should be on my game 100% of the time but sometimes I have real life issues. During these times I’ll tend to withdraw so that I can take care of stuff. I have come to realize feminine women tend to catch an attitude every time you withdraw attention, especially if she did nothing wrong.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Yeah you should be on your game 100% of the time. Men don't get to have excuses. If you abandon your first mate, expect blow-back. You can't just retreat to the Captain's quarters while the ship is sinking and expect everyone to just be cool with that.
w4iks 3y ago
Perfect analogy. Best response I’ve received. I won’t retreat to the captain’s quarters when sea gets rough.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Doesn't sound like an LTR to me. Sounds more like you're in her frame and are working your way down to the orbiter/friend zone. I'm pretty sure I was done partying by the time I was 17 and clubbing by the time I was 23. The women that do that are not LTR material too. Same with the ones that go to concerts by themselves.
w4iks 3y ago
I think the initial post wasn’t very clear. This is an LTR of 15 months. She doesn’t drink or party and actually lives with her parents. Does everything I tell her, even pick her friends for her. I on the hand is in the club or casino at least 4 days a week (due to the nature of my work that I won’t mention). The video she posted was of a musician performing at her college. It was during the day and they had stations for tech, psychology and that kind of stuff. I have no issue that she went, my issue is that I wasn’t informed. Also, upon further investigation there’s a high probability that she didn’t go and this was actually a shit test.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Sounds like some kind of ONEITIS on your part. Cut that shit out or it will ruin your relationship and she will leave. I can't really see anything she did wrong. You're steering the ship into the ground and she's bitching about it. Turn the ship around and head somewhere and she'll get on board. Simple.
w4iks 3y ago
It took me typing this out here to see that I was creating a fuss over nothing. Thanks for keeping me on level head, this is one of the reasons we are here.
kv2_0833 3y ago
Huh, some girls w boyfriends replied to my thirst trap stories, I got them to go clubbing with me. We made out. This doesn't look good lol
w4iks 3y ago
Lol I’ve been in the club life the past four years so I know what you’re saying bro. 7 out 10 times I go home with a girl, and majority of the time they have boyfriends. I clarified what my situation is like in a reply above, kindly check.