idk if it’s just me but all of a sudden everywhere I go every fuckin dude is absolutely diced and a lot are bigger than me.
I thought most dudes are supposed to be fat but at least in my college town pretty much everyone is fit. Sure there’s some skinny’s out there but every dude that lifts is yolked af. I’ve got some dec gains but there’s a LOT of dudes w way more impressive gains.
Makes me wonder… if everyone is fit how tf do you differentiate yourself as a dude to these whores.
Sheesh. Mad competition out there. Start talking to one bird at the bar, get her snap, and some 6”4 lookin ass tries to fight me over her lol.
TriumphoftheSwill 3y ago
I'm yoked but I've learned it's not the most important thing. Sounds cliche but being open and warm, as well as compassionate and helpful is probably the biggest turn on to women. Size and muscles give you confidence and appeals to women on a base level but a good smile and a helpful nature is usually better.
redpilled 3y ago
If it isn't fruitful, leave. I personally moved to Asia because I couldn't be arsed putting in ANY effort for women as they're barely worth it. And, well, let me tell you.. it's too easy. Build yourself up and find greener pastures.
It might mess with your ego but look at it this way -- if you went to a town looking for a job and it was saturated with talent would you stay? Probably not, you'd skip over to places where you are more in demand.
If you are committed to stay, behaviour is the way you differentiate. They might have muscle, doesn't mean they have their internals sorted. I've noticed a lot of big guys who are insecure, don't know how to dress, how to hold themselves, have a conversation.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
The biggest difference should come from simply being red pilled. Knowing what women want and being able to provide that from just living as your improved self. Very few men do. So few that we dont really have to compete with eachother because there is more than enough to go around.
financehardo420 3y ago
That makes sense; a lot of guys are mad soft
Kabiier_0308 3y ago
Yeah going to the gym isn't really gonna make you stand out anymore coz nearly every mf works out now. What you can do is try to build and aesthetic physique which stands out in public.
Also don't get so worked up regarding competition... chances are those bigger guys still don't have any game and still don't approach women etc.
Lastly...stop making women and dating your main goal. Focus on your purpose,read out trp once in while but don't get obsessed about it. Also always remember face>>body. If you have a good looking face and an ok-ish body you'll still get pussy.
The guys that are bigger than you don't necessarily have better facial aesthetics right? Use that as your advantage.